Have you ever experienced a mysterious gush of fluid expelled during sex, oral or self pleasure leaving a puddle on your bed? Or perhaps you desire to feel that sensation of ejaculating across the room in the throws of passion with yourself or a lover?
At Yoni Pleasure Palace believe every vagina-owner is capable of squirting - it's just a matter of waking up this vaginal erogenous zone with awareness, physical touch and knowing how to stimulate this nerve-rich area inside the vagina.
Quick G-Spot History Lesson
Dr. Ernst Grafenberg identified the G-spot in 1950 in his paper “The Role of the Urethra in the Female Orgasm" and found that when touched it would drive a woman “wild”! It’s now been discovered that it’s not necessarily a spot, but rather an erotic zone or a patch of erectile tissue extending from the clitoris legs & bulbs and urethral sponge.
We don’t love the idea that a) a part of the female genitalia is named after a male and b) it’s inaccurate that it’s labeled as a specific ‘spot’. So we would love to re-define the G-Spot as the Goddess Zone, or G-Zone.
Squirting Secrets: 9 Steps to Wet & Wild Pleasure
Here is a step-by-step guide to awakening your G-Zone using the Sacred Squirter glass pleasure wand.
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Turn yourself on. Before inserting your dildo or finger, allow yourself to turn yourself on by creating a self pleasure ritual. Have a warm bath or shower, lay down your Squirt Blanket, massage your breasts with your favourite oil, connect with your vulva and stimulate your clitoris with fingers or a vibrator. Breathe into your belly, relaxing the muscles in your abdomen and pelvic floor.
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Use your fingers to locate your G-Zone. It’s important that you know exactly where it is. With clean hands and trimmed fingernails, gently and slowly insert your fingers 1-3cm inside the vagina (use lube) and on the upper anterior wall. It should feel like a slightly rough, corrugated texture - similar to the roof of your mouth. When you press on this spot it may feel like a compression against your bladder. The zone expands and engorges when you become aroused.
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Do the come hither motion with clitoral stimulation. New research shows how the clitoral erectile tissue extends down into the labia and wraps around the urethra and vestibule (vaginal entrance). Massaging both the clitoris as well as using one or two fingers inside the finger will engorge the G-spot, helping you to squirt ejaculate - a mysterious clear liquid that is released when the Skenes glands (either side of the Urethra) are stimulated.
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Use the Sacred Squirter. If you’re struggling to reach your g-zone using your fingers (I feel your pain - my fingers are tiny), The Sacred Squirter is our best sex toy for g-zone stimulation. It has a curled handle so you can hold onto it and guide it inside at your desired depth and pace. It is thick and curved with ridges and studs on the top to help pleasure the G-spot, so ensure you are ready to receive penetration as it may feel uncomfortable if you're not ready. Choose between the 1.0 or the 2.0!
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Slow down and edge yourself. When using the wand, it's really about slowing everything down and bringing yourself to the edge of orgasm. If you use it too fast and vigorously, it could actually feel incredibly uncomfortable. Take deep breaths, use lots of lube, slowly massage your clitoral network with your opposite hand and slide the squirter inside the vagina in slow motion. Slow down so much that you can feel every single bump and ridge on the glass dildo. This is a practice of total presence and awareness. As you get more turned on you can pick up the pace, but make sure you start slow and gentle. Be aware that you may or may not have a clitoral orgasm. Every vagina-owner is different and some people need a few clit-gasms before squirting, and others notice they need to edge themselves (not climax) before squirting.
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Sign up to Squirt School. If you are serious about learning how to squirt with yourself or a partner, sign up our signature program: Squirt School.This online course teaches you exactly how you and/or you and your partner can experience squirting in the bedroom. Use the code YES100 to receive $100 off the program. The course features a live demonstration by our favourite Only Fans star who shows exactly how to use the Sacred Squirter glass pleasure wand!
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Invest in a waterproof Squirt Blanket. If you really want to release squirt, it's important to have a waterproof blanket underneath you so you don't have to worry about making a mess or stripping the bed sheets. For peace of mind, make sure you have one of waterproof Squirt Blankets beneath you so you feel comfortable to fully let go, knowing you're not going to ruin a couch, bedding or mattress.
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Replenish, rehydrate and relax. After squirting or having a g-zone orgasm, take three deep breaths as if you are drinking up the orgasmic energy and absorbing it into your cells. This is your life force energy! Imagine you're pulling up the energy in your body and spreading it throughout every limb, muscle and bone. Also remember to drink lots of water after squirting as you can lose a lot of fluid. It's a beautiful practice to cup your Yoni after the practice and let her feel held and worshipped. If you notice yourself not being able to squirt, perhaps you are dehydrated and need to drink more water throughout your day.
- Use a Yoni Egg to Awaken Internal Sensation. If you find that using the Sacred Squirter is not making you a gushing goddess (yet) we highly recommend using a Yoni Egg to awaken the muscles and nerve endings within the vagina. Rosie Rees has a best selling "PUSS UP" online program called The Seven Day Yoni Egg Immersion, that takes you through seven practical yoni egg practices you can do every single day. Sign up for this course here for only $97 AUD. It will change your sex life!!
In conclusion, learning to squirt is ultimately about reconnecting with your body’s natural capacity for release, pleasure, and surrender. It’s not something to force or achieve, but rather to allow—through safety, arousal, breath, and deep trust in your body. When you relax into the experience and let go of control, you open yourself to profound waves of pleasure and emotional release.
If you’re ready to explore this more deeply, join Squirt School — a guided, educational journey to help you awaken your G-zone, understand your unique anatomy, and learn the art of surrender through practical tools, embodiment practices, and expert guidance. It’s time to experience the liberation, confidence, and joy that comes from truly knowing your body.
Use the code YES100 to access the course for only $399 AUD today!
Happy squirting friends!
P.S. If you're not quite ready to invest in Squirt School, become a Golden Yoni member for only $40 a month and immerse yourself in our Orgasm module!
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