Masturbation May. A time to connect with your body, your sense of pleasure, and yourself! Not that you need any excuse to do that, but it’s nice to set aside time dedicated to the power of self-love.

It’s also a great time to break up any sexual rut you’ve been in and bring new energy to your solo sex life. This also trickles into your partnered sex life, if that applies to you.

What better way to celebrate and shake things up than with juicy ideas on this list?

1. Create a self-love ritual 

Turn self-pleasure into ceremony. Create your pleasure palace, drop into your body, and tap into your pleasure. We love the Azalea Rose Quartz Crystal Wand  ($222 AUD) to activate and balance the heart chakra with the unconditional energy of love and compassion.

 

 

2. Explore a new fantasy

Let your mind wander. Read erotica, listen to sensual audio, or write your own story by digging into the archives of your sexiest memories.

3. Try a yoni egg pleasure meditation

Cultivate your own sexual energy by centering your awareness in your Yoni and using your pelvic floor as a pump to infuse more self-love, power, and creative energy into your life. 

If you want to feel more alive, juicy, and dripping wet with your own sensual, erotic energy, this 15-minute guided meditation ($15 AUD) will take you to that place.

4. Mirror masturbation

When you watch yourself in the mirror, you empower yourself and see yourself as sexy and desirable. It's not about being conceited or vain; it's about giving yourself permission to fancy yourself and feel horny.

Try different things that you might not have tried before. Pull your hair, scratch, dance naked, and let yourself enjoy this vessel. Embrace your wrinkles, pimples, dimples, and scars, and get off on them. 

5. Masturbation manifestation

Pleasure + intention = magic. Orgasms are a moment of peak energy cultivation. You can use this energy to bring power to the things you want to manifest to help bring them to life.

6. Sexy spa night

Romance yourself by sinking into a warm bath, adorning it with rose petals and oils. Post-bath, slowly give yourself a full-body massage –– and we mean head to toe!

7. Try a new crystal wand

Each crystal brings a specific energy to your self-pleasure practice. If you’ve only tried rose quartz, go for obsidian (grounding and protection), jade (prosperity), or blue aventurine (throat chakra activation).

8. Pleasure in nature

If it’s private and safe, take your toys outdoors. Sunbathe, stargaze, splash in a lake or river, and explore your body while being held by the magic of nature.

9. Morning masturbation ritual

Who needs coffee? Wake up and start the day by tapping into your pleasure. Swap out your normal morning routine to instead focus on just how energized and magnetic you feel when you prioritize yourself first thing in the morning.

10. Sensual dance party

Put on your sexiest playlist. Wear lingerie — or nothing. Move slowly, with intention. Afterward, bring that turned-on energy into your solo-sex session.

11. Pleasure intention jar

Write down prompts like edging, nipple play, or a wet and wild shower session. When the mood strikes, pull one from the jar and follow it.

12. Journal after your orgasms

Orgasms are a portal. Journal while you're soft and open. What stories or emotions came up? What did you notice about your body or the sensations you felt? What do you want to explore next?

13. Take sensual selfies

Snap photos of yourself when you’re feeling your most sensual — mid-touch, post-orgasm, or lounging naked in bed. 

14. Double sensation play

Use your favorite wand internally and while also exploring your clitoris. Move slowly at first, then lean into the intensity of the sensations. Our Bullet Necklace Vibrator ($79 AUD) features a powerful motor with multiple vibration settings, giving you complete control over your experience, and it is ergonomic enough to use with another toy! 

 

15. Anal exploration

Wanna celebrate Masturbation May with anal exploration? The Lana: Rose Quartz Stainless Steel Butt Plug ($99 AUD) is a premium, luxurious stainless steel butt plug that is weighty, cool-to-touch and delectably tapered for easeful entry inside the back passage.

**In case you weren't aware LANA is ANAL backwards**

16. Edging and breathwork

Bring yourself close to orgasm, pause, and breathe deeply. Again. Let the waves build until they crash. 

17. Use lube like a massage oil

Drizzle your oil-based lube onto your thighs, belly, and breasts. Tease and caress yourself by gently massaging it in, taking your sweet time. Our Yinn Oil Based Lubricant ($49 AUD) is made with a silky blend of organic argan, hemp seed, pumpkin seed, and seabuckthorn for sustained moisturisation.

18. Try yoni-dearmouring

In this guided ritual ($44 AUD) you will "map" the vagina using the tapered end of the Cervix Serpent Glass Pleasure Wand ($99 AUD). Allow yourself to massage and dearmour any tension, pain or numbness stored inside your vagina. This is an incredibly slow and healing process, and it's normal for emotions to arise to the surface in order to heal.

19. Tap into your inner cowgirl

Unleash your inner cowgirl with the Ryda Silicone Grinder ($117 AUD). Designed for those who prefer being a 'top', this innovative vulva-shaped device with three secure clips, so you can easily strap it onto a pillow or a body, giving you the freedom to ride, grind, and hump to your heart's desire. 

 

 

20. Make a pleasure altar

Arrange your toys, crystals, and candles on your altar. Set your intentions, pull at a tarot card. Create a sacred space dedicated to your pleasure!

No matter which practices on this list call to you, let Masturbation May serve as a reminder to take your time, honor your body, and prioritize your pleasure.

 

 

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