Flirting isn’t just something you do with other people.

There’s something so magnetic about activating this flirty energy whether or not you’re dating or in a relationship. Being flirtatious creates a sense of playfulness and charm. It’s that twinkle in your eye and the laugh that can be heard across the room.

Flirtyness creates a spark not just with other people, but also with yourself. This energy can feel easier to access when you’re feeling yourself, but it’s also something you can work to cultivate and create more of.

That’s the inspiration behind this flirty self-love ritual that we created so you can tap into your most flirty, playful, magnetic self!

1) Create your palace

The first step in any ritual is to set the space. When it comes to becoming your most flirty, playful self, imagine what your space looks like.

Is it a whimsical fairy wonderland? A lush, flower-filled palace? A cozy fur-lined nest? 

This is your chance to create a gorgeous palace where you get to play with your flirty energy. 

So grab your softest rugs, cushiest pillows, and most fun trinkets. You can even make a canopy-like fort with gorgeous draping fabrics. It’s like making an altar to yourself!

Incense is a must in any flirty palace and we love this Manifestation Paper Incense ($35 AUD) that lets you pick a prompt, write your desire, and simply light one end of the paper and let it burn slowly –– releasing its aromatic scent into the air.

 

 

2) Make space in your body

It’s hard to feel flirty and vibrant when you’re full of tension. Think about the people that are the most magnetic, they also tend to have this relaxed, easeful presence to them.

While a lot of other rituals are about clearing blocks and setting intentions, this one is really about tapping into this playful, magnetic energy. 

You can do this by letting go of the rules and ideas you have about how you should be in your body. Put on a fun, sensual playlist and start moving. 

Start slowly, stretching and feeling into different parts of your body, from your feet to your hips to your shoulders. You can start to pick up the pace and really start dancing like your very own private club. 

This is your space to shake your tush and quite literally dance like no one’s watching. 

3) Tap into your pleasure

Your pleasure is so powerful. The more pleasure you feel, the easier it is to feel flirty and empowered in your being. 

This is your time to really feel all the different parts of your body where you can experience pleasure (literally everywhere). Exploring your thighs, stomach, breasts, and even other areas you might not normally explore by yourself like your feet and your ears.

What’s a flirty self-love ritual without a little self-love?

The Solara Pleasure Wand ($89 AUD) is a delicate yet powerful wand, designed to channel the warmth and radiance of golden, caramel amber hues into your most intimate moments. Exactly the kind of warm and vibrant energy we’re looking to channel!

 

Elegantly contoured with a smooth glass surface, The Solara features two perfectly placed bulbs. Each bulb offers a unique and pleasurable experience, ensuring a deeper connection with your body and desires. 

This Guided Pleasure Wand Audio ($44 AUD) is a 28-minute pleasure wand ritual with the intention of slow, sensual self-reconnection. Rosie's gentle, nurturing guidance helps you deeply connect with your pleasure wand and create an intimate relationship with your vagina.

Using a guided meditation lets you sink into the sensations, heightening your flirty self-love ritual, versus just rushing through your pleasure practice. 

 

You’ll also want a juicy lubricant for your self-love ritual. Our Slippery Coco ($39.95) is perfect for self-massage, self-love, and self-discovery!

 

 

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