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The Power in Submission
It was within this bubble of trust and intimacy that I found power in submission; power to explore my physical, emotional, and sexual limits, power to say no to things I was uncomfortable with, and power to express my emotions in any way they surfaced. ‘Submission’ and ‘surrender’ quickly became interchangeable terms for me. Whether it was within a ‘Sub’ and ‘Dom’ relationship, or just the act of submitting to a feeling, I found that I could never do either of these things without surrendering to my most authentic self first.
How to be Your Own Sexual Muse
Do you allow yourself to be turned on by you? Do you give yourself permission to receive sensual pleasure from yourself? Can you make love to yourself? Are you able to muse yourself and witness the artistic sexual genius that is created? OR...Do you seek something outside of you to inspire you? Do you expect someone else to bring you to orgasm? Do you need someone or something external to arouse you?
How to Shift From Genital Sneezes to Full Body Orgasms
I haven’t met a woman who is not interested in developing her orgasms.
Orgasm can be just a few seconds peak experience - what I call a "genital sneeze" - and this is what most women who orgasm experience. (Including me, for many years...)