Your sex life is a part of your life where you can explore and play. Explore different types of connections, different types of sensations, and different fantasies.
What sort of fantasies run through your mind when you’re the most turned on?
Do you dream of dominating or being dominated?
Got threesomes on your mind?
Do you love the idea of pegging your partner?
No matter what your fantasy is, they’re all welcome here.
Not sure where to start? We’re here to give you a rundown on how to explore your sexual fantasies, using sex toys of course!
Faux threesome
Bringing sex toys into the bedroom is a great way to start to explore any fantasy. If you want to up the ante of your normal sexual escapades, we’ve got just the thing for you…
Our vibrating cock-rings, the Suki and Flick Pleasure Wands, are designed to wrap around a penis, pleasure wand, dildo- or strap-on. Both of these toys stimulate the clitoris using tongue-like sensations, but the Suki mimics a sucking sensation, while the Flick offers a flicking one.
If you fantasize about threesomes, this is a great way to bring in different sensations while you’re being penetrated, almost like there’s a third person there. Or you can always actually bring in a third (or more)!
Splash zone
Got wet and wild fantasies running through your mind?
If you want to explore all things squirting, you’re gonna need the right equipment. Or you could risk staining that new mattress!
No worries, we have the solution for you. With Squirt Blankets™ in all sorts of colors from Moon Blood to Black on Black. These leakproof blankets are designed to protect your bedsheets, mattress, couch, or wherever your squirting antics take you.
While you’re at it, you’ll probably want to grab our Sacred Squirter® Glass Dildo Pleasure Wand. A luscious, tentacle-shaped toy designed to help vagina owners squirt thanks to its tongue-like curve, smooth pleasure bumps, and ridged girth – all perfect for stimulating the G-spot (the key to squirting).
Then check out our blog “How To Have a G-Spot Orgasm Using The Sacred Squirter™” to guide you (and/or your partner) step by step!
Anal antics
Maybe your fantasies revolve around breaking into the world of butt play. We have a butt-load of options for you!
An easy way to start exploring anal play is with a classic butt plug (and a lot of lube). They give you just the right amount of stimulation while still being perfect for those who are new to these sometimes *intense* sensations.
We recommend The Cupie Glass Butt Plug, a (super-cute) gender-neutral toy made for all bodies. Made of borosilicate glass, this unique heart-shaped butt plug is great for partnered or solo play.
Stay curious
No matter where your fantasies take you, we’ve got a toy for you.
Remember to follow what sparks your curiosity. Sex does not need to be stagnant. Stay open to new sensations, curiosities, and fantasies…you never know where they might take you!
The Golden Yoni Membership, led by Rosie Rees, offers immediate access to fourteen enriching modules, inclusive of a bonus Yoni Egg Initiations module. Enjoy different 6-day live Yoni Egg Immersion, guided tutorials, meditations, and connect with a community in a dedicated members-only Facebook group, all at your own pace and without contractual obligations. The program spans various topics, including Yoni Egg Yoga through the 7 Chakras, creating a safe space for sexuality exploration, and understanding the connection between sex, money, and business. Rosie continuously adds new content weekly to ensure a dynamic learning experience. Guest experts contribute to the diverse range of teachings, making this membership a holistic platform for those seeking to reconnect with their Yoni, heal from past traumas, and unlock new levels of pleasure and empowerment.
]]>I love my coffee, but I don’t always love how it makes me feel afterwards and what it does to my hormones. Can you relate?
I have discovered a way of consuming coffee that doesnt f*ck with your hormones and doesn’t make you crash 20 minutes after drinking it and wound up feeling wired and jittery. If anything coffee often makes me less productive, more moody, frazzled and wired.
So, do you want to know how I make coffee work for me and my hormones? (Watch the reel here.)
Hear me out before you cringe...
I’m sure you’ve heard of bulletproof coffee, right? Well it’s basically similar to this method except you add an egg to the mixture. This makes your morning coffee extra frothy, creamy and full of protein - making it like a meal, rather than a drink that spikes your cortisol levels first thing in the morning and then makes you crash hard, become moody and irritable and unable to focus.
Bulletproof coffee has been around since Dave Asprey created the method in 2011 believing that it helped people sustain energy by embracing healthy fats by following a low-carb, high fat "keto" lifestyle.
The yoniproof coffee is essentially making your coffee into a womb-loving meal by adding one extra ingredient: the egg.
Below are the four unique ingredients for making a delicious yoni-proof coffee and an explanation for why we add these into the coffee.
1. Pasture raised egg: Adding an egg to your morning coffee, sounds revolting, but I promise it’s not once it’s all blended up. Adding an egg adds extra fat and protein and makes the coffee super creamy and frothy. Allow the egg to come to room temperature if you don't want it to taste too "eggy". Personally I don't notice the egg taste, but if you're sensitive to eggs you might.
A note on pastured eggs: It’s important to ensure your eggs are pasture raised since these chooks are free to roam in plenty of outdoor space in the sunshine, making happy chickens who produce healthier eggs. You can usually find them at your local farmers markets.
Pasture raised chickens forage their food and consume grass, bugs and worms and whatever yummy snacks they can find in the green pastures plus have access anytime to a trough of seeds. Free range chooks aren’t always free to roam outdoors, as you would expect. Pastured hens gets a minimum of 108 square feet of pasture for themselves, vs free-range chooks only get 2 square feet and pasture eggs have double the amount of Vitamin E and long-chain omega-3 fats.
2. Grass Fed Butter: When add butter to coffee, the fat in the butter breaks down into micelles or small droplets which bind to caffeine molecules. Since fat takes longer for your body to process, the fat allows the caffeine to be released more slowly and evenly into your system.
We also add a teaspoon of grass-fed butter to our yoni-proof coffee because butter is full of omega 3s and is believed to help boost immune system, slow digestion and provide longer lasting energy without the blood sugar crash. It also melts and makes the coffee creamy and frothy, like a latte. You can use MCT oil instead of butter if you prefer a vegan option, or you can also replace the butter with ghee. The healthy fats in ghee slow down the caffein absorption process of caffeine, preventing sudden spikes and crashes of energy. Ghee is thought to neutralize the acidity of coffee.
3. MCT oil or coconut oil: MCT is a compound that is made of medium-chain triglycerides (MCTs), which are essentially saturated fats that the body is able to metabolize quickly. So by adding MCT oil to your coffee it basically helps boost energy levels because the MCTs are metabolised quickly and used by the body for energy. It can also have anti-inflammatory effects, improve memory and help with gut health. MCT oil is also a vegan alternative to using butter. You can also leave out MCT oil if it's too stimulating!
4. Collagen: We add a scoop of collagen to the coffee to help with gut health, skin elasticity, hair & nails strength and to help any relieve joint pain. When our gut health is optimal, our cycle is more balanced because nutrients are absorbed more efficiently in the body. It took me a long time to realise this, but after being diagnosed with leaky gut last year by my nutritionist Jazmine from JH Total Health I am now able to absorb more nutrients and have a healthy 28-30 day cycle!
You can also add gelatine if you prefer, or any other superfood powder you're into, such as Super Feast Mason's Mushrooms.
If you prefer not to drink coffee, you can also switch it out for your favourite warm beverage such as Ceremonial Grade Matcha Green Tea, Ceremonial Grade Cacao or Yerba Mate Hot Chocolate "Love Mate". You can get both of these on our online store!
Below are the ingredients for our delicious, frothy, yolky coffee. Remember to listen to your body. If your body doesn't agree with one or some of these ingredients, remove them or replace them with something else you enjoy.
Making a delicious, frothy, yolky bulletproof coffee that’s also good for your cycle, mood, hormones and fertility, is super easy (and tasty!)
I recommend consuming this 3-5 times a week (not an everyday thing as your cholesterol might spike!). Here are the steps to make a yolky yoni-proof coffee:
Step 1: Brew hot coffee in a way that you love - plunger, espresso, moka pot on the stove - you do you boo! I add two scoops of ground organic coffee to a small plunger, add boiling hot filtered water and allow to brew for 5 minutes.
Step 2: Add all ingredients to your thermomix, food processor or blender (I don’t recommend a nutribullet as it might be too hot!). Add in the hot coffee, milk, egg (just the yolk and the white - not the shell), oil, butter, salt, honey and whatever other ingredients tickle your fancy. Blend for 5-10 seconds on high.
Step 3: Pour into your favourite mug and enjoy!! Sip slowly and enjoy and don't gorget to tag me in your instagram stories and posts: @rosie.rees (founder) and @yoni_pleasure_palace
Enjoy your new coffee recipe and share the love with other women who will benefit from this womb-loving, yoni-thriving coffee alternative.
You can also make this bullet proof coffee with chai or pumpkin spice!
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Love Rosie x
]]>Cis-women and folks who were assigned female at birth (AFAB) have been told to hide and be ashamed of their bodies. We’re fed ideas about what our bodies should look like, even down to our vulvas (hello mainstream porn).
But we’re in a new era. One of reclamation. Of embracing our bodies. Of fully accepting, and even celebrating every hair, bump, labia, and lump.
Here’s to celebrating our vulvas, in every phase of life!
The more, the merrier
Like we said, vulvas come in all shapes and sizes.
Here are just a few of the many variations we see on vulvas:
And so many more!
Pussy power
Here’s the thing – if you’re self-conscious about your vulva, it’s not your fault. In fact, any insecurities you have about your body are not your fault.
It’s totally normal to feel these things when you’ve been fed ideas about what’s beautiful or standard. But as we embrace this era of body positivity, we start to embrace ourselves, every darn inch.
Sound easier said than done?
That’s ok! It can take time to get to a place of feeling secure in your body. We know it can be a lifelong journey so we’re here to help with a few easy-to-do tips.
Take a look in the mirror
It’s time to sit down in front of the mirror and take a good long look at your lips. No…your other lips.
The first step to embracing your body is seeing what it looks like up close and personal. You can sit in front of a full-length mirror, grab a hand mirror, or both.
Move the mirror around, and look at your vulva without judgment. You can even start to touch yourself and see how it changes at different stages of arousal.
We know it might be weird at first but we promise you’ll start to love the practice (and your body) the more and more you do it.
Explore your pleasure
Now that you’ve gotten to know your vulva visually, it’s time to get up close and personal in a different way…through self-pleasure.
Your comfort with your vulva and your pleasure are deeply interconnected. It can be hard to fully feel every nuance of pleasure when you feel disconnected from your body or self-conscious when you’re with a partner.
But when you get in touch with your pleasure through masturbation or sex with a partner, you start to embrace the power of your body.
Take your time, we suggest starting with a vulva massage and continuing to explore different sensations and patterns.
Exposure therapy
When you see different bodies and vulvas being represented, it makes it that much easier to feel comfortable in your own skin.
There’s a lot more ethical porn out there these days, that’s generally made by females for females. If you’re into porn, these companies do a great job of representing different body types.
Us? We’re such fans of vulvas that we made a whole book about them. Our book “This Is The Vulva” shows everything you need to know that you didn’t get taught at school. This gender-inclusive book contains over 50 photos of a variety of vulvas, sent in by our incredible audience.
These photos are to help you understand the huge diversity in vulvas so that you can see that yours isn’t “wrong” or “abnormal”.
Remember, you’re beautiful from your head to your toes, and of course – your vulva!
The Golden Yoni Membership, led by Rosie Rees, offers immediate access to fourteen enriching modules, inclusive of a bonus Yoni Egg Initiations module. Enjoy different 6-day live Yoni Egg Immersion, guided tutorials, meditations, and connect with a community in a dedicated members-only Facebook group, all at your own pace and without contractual obligations. The program spans various topics, including Yoni Egg Yoga through the 7 Chakras, creating a safe space for sexuality exploration, and understanding the connection between sex, money, and business. Rosie continuously adds new content weekly to ensure a dynamic learning experience. Guest experts contribute to the diverse range of teachings, making this membership a holistic platform for those seeking to reconnect with their Yoni, heal from past traumas, and unlock new levels of pleasure and empowerment.
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Whether you’re a pro at taking thirst traps or you rarely look at yourself in the mirror – we’ve got a few tips and tricks for your next sexy photoshoot.
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But sometimes it’s hard to believe it yourself – we understand.
Confidence can ebb and flow throughout your life, but it’s like a muscle. The more you work it out, the stronger it gets.
Small actions here and there can help you move through the world feeling more empowered and sure of yourself. Think of things like flirting with a stranger, sharing a piece of art you’ve been hiding, or going to that pole dancing class you’ve always wanted to try.
To a certain extent – confidence is cumulative. But it can take some work to build it up.
One of our favorite ways to feel hotter and more confident in minutes? A sexy, selfie photo shoot.
Whether you’re a pro at taking thirst traps or you rarely look at yourself in the mirror – we’ve got a few tips and tricks for your next sexy photoshoot.
1) Set The Stage
Nothing will ruin your photoshoot faster than that pile of clothes that’s been lying on your bed for the last week.
But setting the stage isn’t just about making your space nice and tidy – although no shame if you want to leave that messy corner in your room as is.
Your photoshoot doesn’t have to be in your room either. It could be in front of that flower patch in your backyard or the gorgeous fireplace in your living room.
Choose a backdrop that sets the tone of whatever vibe you’re going for. Whimsical garden fairy, regal royalty, water nymph of your bathtub.
Now zhuzh it up! Light candles, put out a vase of flowers, or lay out a luxurious Waterproof Faux Fur Squirt Blanket.
2) Doll Yourself Up
Now that you’ve set the stage, it’s time to get yourself ready.
The most important thing is that you feel like yourself. If you love a red lip – go for it! If you feel like a little kid who got into their mom’s makeup with a full face on, skip it. Do what makes you feel good.
You may want to don a sexy little dress, or that cute lingerie set you’ve been waiting to wear, or maybe you’re going full nude – do your thing.
This doesn’t have to be a full glam affair, it may be as simple as brushing your hair and swiping on some blush. But it definitely helps boost your confidence when you feel tidy and put together – whatever that means for you.
3) Get in your body
You’re feeling like hot stuff, then you get in front of the camera, and you…freeze up.
Unless you’re in front of a camera on a regular basis, it’s not realistic to expect yourself to be a natural right away. One of the easiest ways to help get over your nerves is by getting out of your head – and into your body.
Our recommendation? Put on some sexy tunes and start moving.
Shake your booty, breathe into your belly, touch your body, practice your poses in the mirror, get moving, and let go of whatever is holding you back from feeling connected and grounded in your body.
4) Tap into Your Sensual Energy
Another way to get into your body? Masturbation. Get your sacred sexual energy flowing and give your face that special glow through a mind-blowing orgasm.
To give yourself the royal treatment, we’ve been loving our Rose Quartz Dildo Pleasure Wand - The Duchess.
The Duchess has four smooth, hand-carved bulbs designed to stimulate the natural curves inside your vagina, from your G-spot to your cervix! Made from loving rose quartz, this stone helps you evoke love, joy, and emotional healing.
5) Say Cheese!
Ok maybe don’t say cheese, but by now we think you’re ready to get snapping. You can set up a tripod or Macgyver one on a stack of books to get the right angle.
Put on a playlist that makes you feel juiced up and inspired. Try different poses, and different outfits, and take risks – you may just surprise yourself.
No one ever has to see these pictures besides you (unless you want someone to). So have at it and enjoy the process!
Confidence is a lot deeper than feeling sexy – but it sure does help when you feel comfortable in your own skin. We hope this photoshoot gives you the boost you need!
The Golden Yoni Membership, led by Rosie Rees, offers immediate access to fourteen enriching modules, inclusive of a bonus Yoni Egg Initiations module. Enjoy different 6-day live Yoni Egg Immersion, guided tutorials, meditations, and connect with a community in a dedicated members-only Facebook group, all at your own pace and without contractual obligations. The program spans various topics, including Yoni Egg Yoga through the 7 Chakras, creating a safe space for sexuality exploration, and understanding the connection between sex, money, and business. Rosie continuously adds new content weekly to ensure a dynamic learning experience. Guest experts contribute to the diverse range of teachings, making this membership a holistic platform for those seeking to reconnect with their Yoni, heal from past traumas, and unlock new levels of pleasure and empowerment.
]]>Sex with your partner is not a substitution for masturbation – and vice versa.
You might want to read that again.
Masturbation is important for your relationship with yourself, just as having sex with your partner is important for your relationship with them.
But making time for solo sex when you’re in a relationship can be tricky. This beautiful practice with yourself can bring up shame, confusion, doubt, and other emotions for you and your partner.
If having a masturbation practice is important to you (and it probably is if you’re reading this), then it’s vital to figure out how to make sure your needs are being met, while being respectful of your partner and their feelings.
That’s why we’ve laid out the why and how of masturbating when you’re in a relationship.
Masturbation is good for you
Masturbation feels amazing (and honestly that’s reason enough to do it), but it also comes with a slew of benefits.
These are just a few of them:
That’s just the start of it. There are countless other potential perks you can get from showing yourself some love.
Solo sex as a self-care practice
Solo sex isn’t just about having orgasms, although that’s certainly part of it! It’s also a powerful self-care practice. One that allows you to deepen your connection with yourself and your body.
If you make time for meditation, working out, or your skincare routine, solo sex doesn’t need to be any different.
This is your time for you. For you to feel into your body’s needs and desires, for you to slow down and sink into your breath. This is for you and you.
One of our top self-pleasure tools is the gorgeous Cora Crystal Wand. The Cora’s deliciously curved shape is perfect for yoni massage or juicy g-spot stimulation. Another perk? It’s carved from pink aventurine – a stone that’s known for helping you manifest love, gentleness, and abundance!
How to talk to your partner about masturbation
Even if you know how vital it is to have a self-pleasure practice, it can still bring up a mixed bag of emotions for your partner. They might feel inadequate, resentful, annoyed, or something else.
This is understandable if you’re in a new relationship or you haven’t been open about masturbation before. But at the end of the day, this is your body, and your needs matter.
Here are some helpful points to touch on when you’re talking to your partner:
Part of this is about releasing your own shame around solo sex. Remember to be honest, direct, and empathetic when talking with your partner.
Breaking down your own shame
People carry a lot of shame around sexuality, especially when it comes to masturbation.
Many of us are programmed to be quick and quiet. This mentality can carry over from having to hide masturbation in shared houses or when you lived with your parents. Well, you don’t need to hide anymore.
You shouldn’t have to keep your solo sex practice from your partner. It’s important for you to come to an understanding of why it’s necessary – for both of you. You can even start telling them about what you did when you were alone for some sexy verbal foreplay!
Your sexuality is beautiful. Your pleasure is sacred. You deserve this time with yourself. You deserve a self-pleasure practice!
The Golden Yoni Membership, led by Rosie Rees, offers immediate access to fourteen enriching modules, inclusive of a bonus Yoni Egg Initiations module. Enjoy different 6-day live Yoni Egg Immersion, guided tutorials, meditations, and connect with a community in a dedicated members-only Facebook group, all at your own pace and without contractual obligations. The program spans various topics, including Yoni Egg Yoga through the 7 Chakras, creating a safe space for sexuality exploration, and understanding the connection between sex, money, and business. Rosie continuously adds new content weekly to ensure a dynamic learning experience. Guest experts contribute to the diverse range of teachings, making this membership a holistic platform for those seeking to reconnect with their Yoni, heal from past traumas, and unlock new levels of pleasure and empowerment.
]]>We carry so many shields and defenses as we go through life – to protect ourselves physically, but also emotionally.
These shields are necessary – to a certain extent. But when we continue to let them build, they start to block us off from the most beautiful parts of life.
Connection, creativity, and pleasure.
We build these shields around our hearts, but also around our erogenous zones. We’ve touched on yoni de-armouring, but that’s not the only place you can use this deep practice.
Your anus is another key erogenous zone.
But sometimes you have to break down those shields to experience the deep pleasure that can come from anal play.
Your body keeps score
Your body is so incredibly intelligent. As you go through life it collects data essentially and keeps score of this data to help support you on your journey.
It remembers any negative or traumatic experiences you’ve gone through, cultural views on sexuality that you’ve embodied, and any shame you’ve felt – especially when it comes to your body and sexuality.
This can really play out when it comes to anal pleasure because of the extra stigma that exists around anal play. The irony is, that when you’re able to release these feelings through de-armouring, you can tap into mind-bending, earth-shaking sensations.
Is anal de-armouring right for you?
Anal de-armouring is a deep, sometimes intense, yet transformative process. Really, anyone with an anus (so everyone) can experience the life-changing effects of de-armouring. Of course, we only recommend it for those who are interested in anal play in the first place.
What are some signs you could benefit from anal de-armouring?
Your anus is capable of experiencing such deep pleasure, but you might have to break down a few walls first.
How does anal de-armouring work?
Anal de-armouring helps you to release physical, emotional, and spiritual blocks, especially around sexuality and anal play.
When you release these blockages, you help to get rid of any numbness or pain you may be experiencing and make space for increased pleasure, orgasms, and a deeper connection with your body.
But how exactly do you do it?
Anal de-armouring can be done by yourself or with a partner that you trust.
You’ll need the right tool to help you reach deep pressure points in your anus. Our recommendation? The Medusa Glass Dildo Pleasure Wand – a “double teaser” designed for both g-spot and anal stimulation. We love The Medusa for this practice since the four-tiered bulbous end helps you gradually experience deeper anal sensation.
You’ll also need lube, Yinn’s Water Based Lubricant is a great choice.
This is essentially a deep anal massage that’s meant to increase blood flow and open pathways to pleasure.
Here’s how to do it…
Go slow and listen to your body every step of the way. It can take a few sessions to see deep changes from this practice. Remember that you don’t have to carry this armour with you anymore. You deserve all the pleasure and all the connection!
The Golden Yoni Membership, led by Rosie Rees, offers immediate access to fourteen enriching modules, inclusive of a bonus Yoni Egg Initiations module. Enjoy different 6-day live Yoni Egg Immersion, guided tutorials, meditations, and connect with a community in a dedicated members-only Facebook group, all at your own pace and without contractual obligations. The program spans various topics, including Yoni Egg Yoga through the 7 Chakras, creating a safe space for sexuality exploration, and understanding the connection between sex, money, and business. Rosie continuously adds new content weekly to ensure a dynamic learning experience. Guest experts contribute to the diverse range of teachings, making this membership a holistic platform for those seeking to reconnect with their Yoni, heal from past traumas, and unlock new levels of pleasure and empowerment.
Sex is an essential part of most relationships. But sometimes it’s hard to make time for it – especially when you have kids. So how do you manage to have a steamy sex life after you have kids? Here are our top five tips.
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Between school holidays, busy work schedules, meal times, extracurriculars, and whatever else you have going on as a family, sometimes sex with your partner becomes the last priority.
Having sex isn’t just enjoyable. It’s key to a healthy relationship. It also helps you show up better in every other area of your life, including being a more present, happy parent.
So how do you manage to have a steamy sex life after you have kids?
Here are our top five tips:
1) Understand Your Kids
Unfortunately, there’s no hard and fast rule for having sex after you have kids. That’s why it’s so important to understand your kids and where they’re at at different points in their lives.
Their age and how self-sufficient they are will impact how you go about your sex life. For those with babies and toddlers that may mean nap time or late at night, while those with school-aged kids may take advantage of school time or when your kids are at play dates at other people’s houses.
You know your child (or children) best, so you’ll need to trust your intuition and know that things will change as they get older.
2) Get Creative
Remember when you were young and in love and you would have sex anywhere you could? From the back of the car to questionable spots in nature, you had to get creative and be resourceful.
Put yourself in your younger you’s shoes.
Where or when can you create space to have sex? Try in the shower or even in the shed. Do you normally make time to work out in the morning? Replace one or two workouts a week with intimacy time.
The creativity and spontaneity can be a hot form of foreplay!
3) Set Them Up with Activities
Ok, as much as we love spontaneity in our sex lives, sometimes intimacy after having kids can take a little extra planning.
If your kids are old enough to be left alone for a bit but aren’t totally self-sufficient, you may want to set them up with an activity and some snacks so that you can carry on with your own *activities*.
This could mean setting up shop in front of the TV and letting them watch whatever they’d like, or making a craft station with something they love to do. It may be helpful to leave out snacks for them or let them know that they can grab whatever snack they’d like (without asking), to help prevent any hunger-related interruptions.
4) Have an “Emergency Only” Rule
While you want to communicate the importance of privacy time (more on that in the next step), you also want your kids to know when it’s ok to interrupt you.
Although that may be different for different families, it probably means they can interrupt you if there’s an emergency. Still, “emergency” can be an open-ended term for kids, so make sure you explain what that means – injury, sickness, etc.
If it’s not an emergency, but they really need you, just make sure you tell them they need to knock before coming in.
5) Communicate with Your Kids
Sex is a normal part of life. It’s also essential to a healthy and happy relationship. While your kids might not be old enough for you to explain the concept of sex or intimacy to, they likely can understand the idea of “private or special time”.
It’s important to explain to your kids how important this is in an age-appropriate way that reflects your beliefs and values as a family. You can also explain that having this special time helps make you better parents.
The older they get, the more open you can be about this and the more boundaries you can set. You might try putting a “do not disturb” sign on the door or saying that you and your partner need a “nap”.
What if your kids hear you having sex?
It’s bound to happen at some point. So the older they get, the more open you can be about it. Sex is nothing to be ashamed of, really it’s a key part of relationships that should be embraced.
While we hope this helped give you some guidance and *inspiration*, ultimately you know your kid best!
The Golden Yoni Membership, led by Rosie Rees, offers immediate access to fourteen enriching modules, inclusive of a bonus Yoni Egg Initiations module. Enjoy different 6-day live Yoni Egg Immersion, guided tutorials, meditations, and connect with a community in a dedicated members-only Facebook group, all at your own pace and without contractual obligations. The program spans various topics, including Yoni Egg Yoga through the 7 Chakras, creating a safe space for sexuality exploration, and understanding the connection between sex, money, and business. Rosie continuously adds new content weekly to ensure a dynamic learning experience. Guest experts contribute to the diverse range of teachings, making this membership a holistic platform for those seeking to reconnect with their Yoni, heal from past traumas, and unlock new levels of pleasure and empowerment.
But unfortunately, that’s not everyone’s experience.
Are you used to only having one type of orgasm? Do you feel like you’re in an orgasm rut? Are you ready to unlock a whole new world of orgasmic potential? *cues the Aladdin song*
Well don’t worry – that’s kind of our thing here at Yoni Pleasure Palace.
Let us introduce you to the world of blended orgasms. It’s time to learn all about these earth-shattering climaxes, and how to get there.
What is a blended orgasm?
When we say blended orgasm, we mean stimulating multiple erogenous zones simultaneously until you climax. Your clitoris and vagina. Vagina and anus. Nipples and clitoris. You get the picture!
With dual stimulation, you can reach new levels of pleasure and tap into toe-curling, mind-bending, esoteric orgasms.
But depending on how you look at it – every orgasm is a blended orgasm.
Clitoral Anatomy 101
Your clitoris, vagina, vulva, it’s all interconnected (and yes, the clitoris is part of the vulva). Let’s take a quick anatomy lesson – we promise it will be fun.
Most people think of the clitoris as the tiny button that sits at the peak of your vulva. Really, your clitoris is more like an upside-down wishbone with “legs”, crura, and “bulbs”, vestibular bulbs, that extend downwards behind your labia, around your vagina and urethra, and towards your anus.
These bulbs and legs are also packed with erectile tissue that swells when you’re turned on. This helps increase lubrication and sensation throughout your vulva and vagina.
So when you focus on just the clitoris, for example, you’re in turn stimulating other parts of the vulva and vagina. Still, solely stimulating the clitoris is typically thought of as a “clitoral orgasm”, even though that’s not technically correct, anatomically speaking.
How to Have a Blended Orgasm
Anatomy lesson over.
Now that you get the mechanics behind a blended orgasm, how do you get there? Let’s call this lesson “physical education”.
1) Get the right equipment
It can be tricky to nail the ergonomics of dual stimulation, especially when you’re masturbating. The last thing you need when you’re having sex with yourself is a hand cramp.
Our recommendation?
A powerful product designed to stimulate both your vagina and clitoris at the same time, so that you can focus on your pleasure, instead of trying to juggle multiple toys.
Introducing The Dual and The Rhea.
Both these products are designed with a longer end for G-spot stimulation and a silky smooth head to sensually embrace your clitoris at the same time. The Dual has longer dimensions for those with a longer vaginal canal – along with a pulsating tongue to mimic the tantalizing sensations of oral sex.
The Rhea, on the other hand, has slightly shorter dimensions and offers 9 frequency vibrations to catapult you to new levels of pleasure. Both these products are amazing, but those with an average length or shorter vaginal canal will likely be able to experience more precise G-spot and clitoral sensations using The Rhea.
You’ll be seeing stars faster than you can say “blended orgasm”.
2) Start slow
If the world of blended orgasms is new to you, here’s a heads up – it can be intense. Wonderful. Empowering. Life-changing. But intense.
Remember that there’s no rush.
This is your body, your experience, your journey.
Taking your time not only lets you adjust to intensifying levels of pleasure, but it can also help you connect with your body and experience deeper, more satisfying orgasms.
If you feel like you’re rushing, or like the sensations are overwhelming, remember to breathe into it. You can always stop or slow down for a moment to recalibrate, then ease back in slowly.
We’ll say it again – there’s no rush.
3) Surrender to the moment
With these intense sensations, it’s normal to want to contract and tighten or try to control the experience. While there’s nothing wrong with doing whatever feels natural for your body, there is so much power in softening and surrendering.
You may find there’s a moment where you’re tensing and rushing, but see what happens when you soften into the sensations.
That moment of surrender is where the real unlocking is. Just over that edge lies new levels of pleasure. A deeper connection with your body and an understanding of just how powerful it is. How powerful you are.
How’s that for a blended orgasm?
]]>Do you daydream in the realm of fairies, dragons, and Game of Thrones?
Here are our tips on tapping into your most erotic Game of Thrones energy.
]]>Do you long to be ravaged by a High Fae King, Jon Snow, Khaleesi…or all of the above?
Do you also happen to get pretty wet and wild during sensual moments?
Move aside towels, it’s time to pass the torch.
If you’re a *squirter* you know very well that towels don’t always get the job done – even when you lay down more than one. You also don’t want to be thinking about sleeping on a wet spot later when you’re trying to let go and be present in the moment.
Our solution?
Squirt blankets.
But not just any squirt blanket. We’ve added an ultra-luxurious new collection to our line of waterproof squirt blankets.
Introducing the Splash Waterproof Faux Fur Collection. Besides being super cozy and completely waterproof, the Faux Fur Splash Blanket™ can help transform a regular sexual escapade into your wildest fantasy.
Here are our tips on tapping into your most erotic Game of Thrones energy:
Set the Stage
First, think about where your fantasy takes place.
Are you deep in the throes of passion under an exotic waterfall?
Melting into your lover next to a crackling fireplace after they return from battle?
Making sensual love in the forest surrounded by woodland creatures?
Think about how you can set the stage with what resources you have available. Think candles, bathtubs, plants, and flowers, maybe project a video of a crackling fire. You can even take it outside if you have a private yard or land.
Setting the scene helps you switch gears from your normal life into fantasy land. Which brings us to our next tip…
Get into Character
Who are you?
A fairy queen?
A fierce, magical warrior?
Mother of dragons?
It’s time to not only transform your space, but yourself. Roleplay is a classic kink activity for a reason – it lets you leave your worries and insecurities behind and transform into whoever you want to be!
Taking on a new identity can help bring your desires to life, give you newfound confidence, and indulge in your partner’s biggest turn-ons (if you have one).
How do you do that?
Dressing up is a great place to start, that could just mean new lingerie and maybe a wig. It’s also fun to use accents and act like your character would. Just think of how much confidence it takes to lead a dragon-fueled revolution – and bring that into the bedroom.
Commit and Enjoy
As hot as it may seem, it can also feel a little…silly.
But guess what? This is your fantasy and you get to create the experience.
If you want to laugh, laugh! If you want to stay in character for the rest of the day to keep the fantasy alive – awesome! You get to use your imagination to create whatever world and experience you want.
The more you let yourself lean into the creativity and sensuality of it all, the more you (and your partner) will enjoy it.
So have fun with it, enjoy the process, and let your wildest fantasies come to life!
Just don’t forget your faux fur splash blanket.
And…scene!
The Golden Yoni Membership, led by Rosie Rees, offers immediate access to fourteen enriching modules, inclusive of a bonus Yoni Egg Initiations module. Enjoy different 6-day live Yoni Egg Immersion, guided tutorials, meditations, and connect with a community in a dedicated members-only Facebook group, all at your own pace and without contractual obligations. The program spans various topics, including Yoni Egg Yoga through the 7 Chakras, creating a safe space for sexuality exploration, and understanding the connection between sex, money, and business. Rosie continuously adds new content weekly to ensure a dynamic learning experience. Guest experts contribute to the diverse range of teachings, making this membership a holistic platform for those seeking to reconnect with their Yoni, heal from past traumas, and unlock new levels of pleasure and empowerment.
As you settle into the new year and look ahead to what shifts and changes you want in your life, you’re probably thinking about things like abundance, relationships, and community. All wonderful and very important things to be intentional about, but there’s another area of your life that needs to be examined…
Your pleasure.
Life is about the little moments, the small bits of joy, connection, and of course – pleasure. But all those moments add up, so making the resolution to experience more pleasure in your day-to-day life means a more pleasurable year overall.
There’s no time like the present, so why not start today?
Here are our top ways to make pleasure your New Year’s resolution:
Slow Down
Life moves so fast.
We’re already in another year. So why not savor it?
It may seem simple but one of the most effective ways to experience more pleasure in your life is to slow way down. Pleasure isn’t just sexual. It’s the moments in between where you feel life buzzing within and outside you. It’s the time you take to just be, just feel.
Slowing down in your sex life, whether that’s solo or with someone else can help heighten moments of pleasure, increase connection, and let your orgasms build to explosive levels.
You can start right now by closing your eyes for a moment, inhaling deeply, and truly taking these words in.
Use Your Voice
Communication is everything.
Whether it’s how you communicate with yourself, your partner, or the many other people in your life. It’s also essential for your pleasure.
If you’re having sex with someone else, remember that they can’t read your mind. You have to be able to communicate with them about what turns you on, what your boundaries are, and what feels good.
Communicating your needs means more pleasure because people actually know how to please you – and it can be its own hot form of foreplay!
Start a Pleasure Practice
Pleasure can be like a muscle. The more you work it out, the easier it gets to access it.
We already know how fast life moves, so sometimes you have to set aside intentional time to experience pleasure – whether that’s with yourself or a partner. You can make this like a “date day”, again we love solo dates too!
That doesn’t just mean sex, although that can definitely be a big part of your pleasure practice. Some other juicy practices to add in are baths, self-massage or partnered massage, and sensual movement or dance.
Invest in Your Pleasure
What’s a pleasure practice without the right tools?
One of the biggest ways to unlock new levels of pleasure is with tantalizing toys. When you invest in your pleasure, you’re locking in the intention and communicating how worthy you are of experiencing more of it!
Our suggestion? We’re loving the Obsidian Curve Crystal Dildo. The gentle curve of this dildo helps to stimulate the G-spot and cervical stimulation and is a great option for people who are new to intra-vaginal masturbation.
You also get the extra perk of black obsidian’s healing and grounding properties that may help clear out emotions of sexual shame or trauma that’s blocking you from your full pleasure potential.
For more inspiration, please feel free to check out our blog or join our private Facebook group dedicated to anything sexual, relationship/love, menstruation, masturbation, kink, yoni egg related, and more!
The Golden Yoni Membership, led by Rosie Rees, offers immediate access to fourteen enriching modules, inclusive of a bonus Yoni Egg Initiations module. Enjoy different 6-day live Yoni Egg Immersion, guided tutorials, meditations, and connect with a community in a dedicated members-only Facebook group, all at your own pace and without contractual obligations. The program spans various topics, including Yoni Egg Yoga through the 7 Chakras, creating a safe space for sexuality exploration, and understanding the connection between sex, money, and business. Rosie continuously adds new content weekly to ensure a dynamic learning experience. Guest experts contribute to the diverse range of teachings, making this membership a holistic platform for those seeking to reconnect with their Yoni, heal from past traumas, and unlock new levels of pleasure and empowerment.
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]]>You know what doesn’t get talked about enough in self-care conversation? Your yoni.
Carving out time to connect with your sense of pleasure and power is a form of self-care in itself – and whew is it a powerful one!
It’s not uncommon to feel disconnected from your yoni, especially when you look at the societies many of us grew up in.
But guess what?
This is your body and you get to define (or redefine) your relationship to it. That’s why we’ve rounded up five tools to help you on your yoni self-care journey!
1) Solo Sex
We don’t typically think of masturbation as a form of self-care, but it absolutely is. Not only are you making time to just *be* with yourself, but you’re also saying “My pleasure is so important that I’m going to make it a priority.”
Masturbation offers a whole lot of benefits from relieving stress to boosting your mood. Exploring your body is powerful. Orgasms are powerful. You are powerful. Now that’s some serious self-care!
While you can do it the old-fashioned way (your hand can definitely get the job done), it can be a game changer to use a toy like a crystal dildo or a vibrator.
2) Yoni Eggs
Another one of our favorite self-care practices at YPP using yoni eggs. These sphere (or egg) shaped tools are typically made from crystal or glass and come in different sizes – so you can choose the right one for your body.
Yoni eggs are placed in your vagina while you explore different practices and rituals to help you connect to your womb space. When used consistently they may assist you in strengthening the muscles of your pelvic floor, enhancing orgasms, and healing deep-rooted sexual blocks and traumas.
3) Vulva Mask
Sheet masks aren’t just for your face! If your vulva could use a little TLC, we have just the tool for you.
Our Restore Vulva Mask is formulated with nourishing ingredients like Lactobacillus ferment, a non-living probiotic that helps to reduce irritation and itching (especially for those with BV or thrush); willow bark extract for its anti-inflammatory properties and gentle exfoliation (good-bye pesky ingrown hairs!); and pineapple fruit extract for boosting hydration and increasing skin cell turnover
Treat your vulva right while helping to minimize blemishes and rough skin caused by aging and hair removal.
4) Yoni Steam
If you’ve never experienced a yoni steam…your life is about to change.
Yoni steams are done by sitting over a pot of steeped herbs chosen specifically for womb healing – many people have special stools and seats designed for steaming. The combination of healing herbs and warming, moisturizing steam makes for a calming, yet potent practice that helps to detoxify the womb and yoni.
Yoni steaming is an ancient practice that has been used by people around the world and may help to regulate periods and reduce menstrual pain, ease symptoms of menopause, support postpartum healing, and release past traumas and blockages.
5) Womb Healing Meditation
Whether or not meditation is part of your normal self-care routine, you can take this practice to the next level with an intentional womb-healing meditation.
As people with vulvas, we hold so much in our wombs. Setting aside intentional time to focus on releasing tension and connecting with your body on such a deep level can be incredibly transformative. You can use womb healing meditation to help tune into your body’s innate wisdom, ignite more pleasure and sensation in your yoni, clear physical and emotional pain, and start envisioning your womb as a sacred space.
For more self-care tools, we invite you to check out our blog or join our private Facebook group dedicated to anything sexual, love and relationships, menstruation, masturbation, kink, yoni egg related, and more! Dive even deeper into yoni self-care in The Golden Yoni Membership, Rosie’s VIP group dedicated to pussy empowerment.
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At Yoni Pleasure Palace, one of our favorite self-care tools are yoni eggs. While yoni eggs certainly aren’t new to the world, they may be new to you.
Intrigued? Of course, you want to do your research before investing in a new tool – especially if that tool is going inside your most sensitive area!
We’re here to take the mystery out of this expansive and explorative practice by breaking down the pros and cons of yoni eggs.
What is a Yoni Egg?
Before we dive into that, let’s go through a little yoni egg 101.
Yoni eggs are (you guessed it!) egg-shaped tools that go inside your vagina, much like a kegel weight. They’re typically made from glass or different crystals like rose quartz, jade, or clear quartz. Our yoni eggs come with the option of having a hole drilled in the top with a string attached for easy removal.
Here are just a few of the many reasons people LOVE yoni eggs:
We want to keep it real with you and let you in on a few potential cons when using yoni eggs:
If you’re ready to dive deeper into this transformational practice, we’d love to invite you to our Golden Yoni Membership where we share an abundance of practices, meditations, and education on yoni eggs – we’ll see you there!
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Diving into the realm of intimate pleasure products, "The Crescent" stands out as a masterpiece in the world of glass dildos. With its enchanting curvature and dual bulbous ends, this glass wand not only promises an indulgent experience but also holds the key to unlocking the benefits of glass wands, including hypoallergenic properties, temperature play potential, and the art of cervical vaginal deamouring.
The Beauty of Glass Dildos:
Crafted from body-safe borosilicate glass, The Crescent goes beyond a mere pleasure device. Its curved design and dual bulbous ends enhance its functionality, ensuring precise stimulation for an optimal experience. The glass material provides a smooth, non-porous surface that is easy to clean, maintaining both hygiene and aesthetic appeal.
The Four Benefits of Glass Wands:
Cervical Vaginal Deamouring:
"The Crescent" takes the practice of cervical vaginal dearmoring to a new level with its curved design and strategically placed bulbous ends. This practice involves targeted stimulation of the cervix and surrounding areas to release tension and promote sexual satisfaction. When combined with the unique shape of The Crescent, individuals can explore heightened pleasure and emotional release.
Guidelines for Cervical Vaginal Deamouring:
"The Crescent" not only represents the epitome of elegance and aesthetic appeal in intimate pleasure products but also encapsulates the benefits of glass wands. With its curved design and dual bulbous ends, this glass dildo opens the door to a world of pleasure, sexual wellness, and self-discovery.
Whether exploring personal pleasure or embarking on the journey of cervical vaginal deamouring, The Crescent invites individuals and couples to indulge in a heightened connection and a celebration of sensuality.
]]>Crystal Pleasure Wands are a safe, sexy and eco way to self pleasure that combines both healing and empowerment. They offer a natural alternative to rubber, plastic, jelly or silicone dildos, and despite bein
g naturally "cold and hard" crystal wands cultivate an incredibly sensual internal experience, especially when warmed up to body temperature and lathered in your favourite organic lubricant.
Crystal wands are 100% natural semi-precious gemstones (mined from the earth), hand-carved, polished into an ultra-smooth texture and free from synthetic materials such as dyes, waxes, glue, chemicals or filler acrylics. As they are free from any toxins, they are a totally body-safe, toxin-free option for our most sensitive nether regions - just like borosilicate glass but even prettier and earthier!
Carved into the shape of a dildo, anal plug or yoni egg, crystals are deeply healing and pleasurable when used in the correct way. Remember to choose your wand based on the energetic properties it embodies that will help with your emotional, mental and physical needs. You can read about the crystal properties of our Yoni Pleasure Palace wands here.
Here are some helpful tips to using your crystal wand:
Emphasis on the word safely. Before using your crystal, ensure you wash it in warm soapy water or add a few sprays of our toy cleaner. We recommend laying down a soft washer or flannel in the sink to avoid dropping and breaking your beloved stone. Due to a high number of breakages we highly recommend not taking your wand into the shower! Warning: SLIPPERY WHEN WET.
Never use boiling hot water to wash your crystal otherwise the intensity and pressure may crack the stone, deeming it unable to use.
We have an in-depth article here on how to clean your sex toys.
It's important to regularly energetically cleanse your crystal wand. Crystals absorb energy, so it’s important to neutralise the crystal by doing one or more of the following techniques:
● Leave overnight under a full moon (even if it’s cloudy).
To maximise your use out of the crystal, set your intention into the stone each time before using it. Crystals are natural entities from the earth and can be programmed with a heart-felt intention. Simply close your eyes, place your crystal in your hands or against your heart, and feel into an authentic intention that rises up for you. Combining an authentic intention with a self pleasure ritual is a highly potent practice that can create ripple effects your life.
Naturally, Rose Quartz is an amplifying self love stone that helps to connect you with your heart, soften emotional tension, fill up your cup and lessen grief, sadness, resentment or stress in the heart-space. An intention you might program into your Rose Quartz wand is to nurture your heart, heal a broken heart, release anger towards someone, forgive an enemy or amplify more love in your life!
Black Obsidian on the other hand is a highly protective, grounding and clearing volcanic stone that helps you to energetically release negative energy. When used in a self pleasure ritual, this can help let go of sexual trauma stored in the Yoni or womb and shed any limiting stories or patterns around your sex, love or relationships. It can help you come into a stronger space of self worth and control and help to release emotions like shame or guilt that block the natural flow of energy in the body.
Crystal wands can be used for a multitude of purposes, depending on their shape, size and intention for use. Here are some just to name a few:
When starting out, it's best to talk it slow and steady. Warm up your pleasure wand, add a few drops of your favourite organic lubricant (we recommend Yinn - as featured in Goop) and take some deep slow breaths. Set your intention into your wand and then start by guiding your wand in little by little. It may slide in quickly or it may take many minutes for it to glide inside. Either way, don't rush yourself or feel like there is a "right or wrong" way of doing it. It's all about being patient, gentle and slow with yourself. You might be used to a quick goal-focused vibrator-induced orgasm (which is not a bad thing) so it may feel boring and unproductive. This is totally normal! But stay with it and let yourself feel...
Follow the curiosity of your touch. Sliding it deeper in, pressing to the side, to the top of the vagina, to the bottom. Add more lubricant. Breathe deeply. Watch yourself in the mirror. Cry, laugh, scream - let yourself express yourself. Go slower, go faster, pause. Press on the g-spot, rub it up and down, go deeper towards the cervix. Pause. Tap. Slide side to side, or around and around. Gently nudge the end of your vagina with love and presence. Open your mouth as you do so and release any authentic sound that wants to be released.
It's ideal to lay down a small waterproof Splash Blanket™ to capture any lubricant spills, vaginal fluid, squirt or anything else that comes out!
Endometriosis is a painful disorder where tissue grows outside your uterus (similar to the tissue that normally lines the inside of your uterus). Endometriosis commonly affects your ovaries, fallopian tubes and the tissue lining your pelvis. Endometriosis can also be found in any part of the body, but we are going to specifically suggest some ideas to help with endometriosis in the pelvic region.
The tissue growing outside of the uterus acts in the same way it would if it was inside the uterus. Meaning it thickens, sheds, and causes you to bleed each menstrual cycle. It causes pain because it is trapped within the body and has no way of exiting (because it isn’t inside the uterus to exit through the cervix and vagina).
If this tissue has formed around the ovaries or fallopian tubes, it can cause cysts which lead to irritation, scar tissue & even cause tissues and organs to stick together.
It’s a hidden disease that affects over 11% of Australian’s and commonly it can take years or even decades for their cries to be heard and to receive a diagnosis.
So, what can you do to help alleviate the pain? Here are our 4 best tips!
Using a small crystal Yoni Egg can help with strengthening and toning but also softening and relaxing your pelvic floor muscles. The stone eggs can increase blood flow to your vagina and can massage the labia, perineum and your inner walls which can help relieve inflammation internally.
Our best recommendations would be the Red Carnelian crystal as it is a Sacral Chakra stone and great for healing any trauma in the womb space, as well as the Nephrite Jade crystal being the master healer stone. The crystals from mother earth have their own healing benefits spiritually and energetically which you can tap into.
Only use for short periods of time with Endometriosis and we don't suggest using at the time of severe pain.
2. How heat can relieve you from your endometriosis pain?
At the time of your bleed (or all year round with endometriosis), you may feel bloating & cramping whilst internally your organs are inflamed. You could try taking a warm bath or shower or you can use our Womb Heat Wrap which can tie around your body and provide immense comfort, warmth, and support for your womb.
Heat naturally helps alleviate pain as it relaxes your muscles, improves blood flow & circulation, increases muscle flexibility & alters your perception of pain.
Our Womb Heat Wraps are ultra-comfortable, hands-free, flaxseed heat packs specifically designed for wrapping around the lower back & lower belly. The flaxseed heating up permeates throughout the wrap and through the skin to provide that warm heat to help control the pain of endometriosis. They are available in our shop for $69.95 AUD.
3. Consuming anti-inflammatory foods & drinks to reduce endometriosis pain
It won’t necessarily help with instant pain relief, but consuming anti-inflammatory foods and drinks year-round, can help reduce the pain when you bleed. Increasing Green Tea & Turmeric (amongst other anti-inflammatory foods) are great options and ways to assist you long term with endometriosis.
Healthline also suggest adding fibrous foods, iron-rich foods, foods rich in essential fatty acids & antioxidant-rich foods to your diet to help fight inflammation & pain.
4. How yoni steaming helps endometriosis:
Yoni Steams work by applying gentle heat and moisture that carries essential herb oils to the exterior tissues of the vagina and perineum area. This ancient practice has been used around the world by different cultures to help naturally treat many genital, menstrual and reproductive issues. People have found using a yoni steam pre & post bleed to help reduce the inflammation and the pain.
For a step by step guide on 'How to Yoni Steam' check our founder Rosie Rees blog here for everything you need to know.
You can purchase our Yoni Steam botanical blend in our store for $38 AUD.
5. Using a TENS machine for your womb space
There are many TENS machines on the market but one that is designed specifically for your pelvic area is a great choice in our opinion - watch this space ;)
A TENS (transcutaneous electrical nerve stimulation) machine provides painless electro currents that feel like gentle buzzing pulses to help relieve pain. These pulses let your muscles relax & help calm your nerves by tricking your pain receptors.
6. A 'womb healing meditation' to assist with clearing physical pain from your womb space
Rosie has created a 19 minute Womb healing Meditation that you can download for only $10 AUD.
"When we do a womb healing, we start to feel a greater sense of connection to this space - more pleasure, more sensitivity, more flow and more awareness."
This guided meditation will help assisting you with clearing that physical pain, releasing the trauma endometriosis has caused your womb space & helping you to visualise the healing to your uterus.
Unfortunately for most, the solution is surgery and still sometimes endometriosis can return. There are also further complications that endometriosis can cause like infertility & ovarian cancer. Our best advise to you is to see a gynecologist to help you with a diagnosis (if that is what you are looking for) and to help create a treatment management plan. .
So how do you know if you have endometriosis?
It would take a diagnosis from a doctor, but your symptoms could include:
Endometriosis puts peoples lives on hold during their bleeds, so how can you support them?
The Golden Yoni Membership, led by Rosie Rees, offers immediate access to fourteen enriching modules, inclusive of a bonus Yoni Egg Initiations module. Enjoy different 6-day live Yoni Egg Immersion, guided tutorials, meditations, and connect with a community in a dedicated members-only Facebook group, all at your own pace and without contractual obligations. The program spans various topics, including Yoni Egg Yoga through the 7 Chakras, creating a safe space for sexuality exploration, and understanding the connection between sex, money, and business. Rosie continuously adds new content weekly to ensure a dynamic learning experience. Guest experts contribute to the diverse range of teachings, making this membership a holistic platform for those seeking to reconnect with their Yoni, heal from past traumas, and unlock new levels of pleasure and empowerment.
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Firstly, let me clarify, if you are a trusted friend to the new mother this blog is for you. If, however you are not, read on and learn BUT gifts of service may be more applicable for you (rather than the acts of service I mention).
So, how to be what your bestie needs right now?
She needs to be nurtured.
She is healing physically from the birth whilst trying to care and keep a baby alive. Her emotions are heightened. She is experiencing a new love and a new version of herself. She is learning. It’s a lot!
If only we lived in villages and supported new mums together as a tribe. But wait, you are her tribe, and you can help! Here’s the breakdown for you:
0-6 Weeks Postpartum
This is the period of time only trusted family and friends should be visiting. She is raw (literally), she is working it all out and add to that, some sleep deprivation. This is not the time to hold the baby, but instead to hold the mother. What does she need right now? She needs decisions made for her that are helpful!
Like see that washing sitting in the machine - hang it out (without asking because of course she is going to say ‘you don’t need to do that’). Empty the full rubbish bin, wash & sterilise those bottles/pump parts or throw out the pile of nappies you can see. Bring over cooked meals or arrange for a delivery from the Grocery Store so she doesn’t have to leave the house.
Maybe she needs some things she didn’t expect (like more pads, Panadol, breastfeeding friendly tops, more bras, some things for the baby). Offer to pick up any click and collect orders she wants to place so you can get them to her asap. This is helpful so she can order what she likes from her phone, but you can still be helpful in delivering them to her. Offer a contactless drop off if she likes. You don’t need to come in, you can leave the goodies at the door so there is no pressure on her to ‘show up’.
Some useful gifts to help her in this new phase:
As her trusted person, she may want a break and that’s a way you can support her as well. It may be for a quick minute to pee, or a bit longer for her to shower or eat. Another great way is to come over in the evenings (bring dinner of course) and take the night shift for her. This means she can go to sleep knowing you will try your best to settle her baby just like she would. Maybe it’s just in between feeds if the baby prefers contact naps or maybe the mother will want to have you feed the baby as well (formula or expressed milk) so she can have a longer sleep. Even just for a few hours, this is a helpful way to care for the baby which in turn is caring for the mother. Enjoy those snuggles bestie!
Check in Often.
Don’t be offended, but she is busy right now and maybe not messaging or calling as much as she used to. At a minimum she may find some time to respond to the messages she has received (rather than reaching out to those she hasn’t) so make sure you are in her inbox!
Don’t forget to greet the parents when you arrive & ask how THEY are doing before greeting or checking in about the baby. Often mums put themselves second for a while when they have a new baby, but by acknowledging the mother first, you are letting her know she is important and is the priority to you!
It’s also super important to check in and greet any older children too. They are not just ‘Big Sisters’ or ‘Big Brothers’ now. They are individuals who have a whole new person living in their home with them now. Maybe they have some needs or emotions you can help them with (like playing with them, helping them with homework, having a chat about how they are feeling etc.)
You know your bestie best so I’m sure you will be mindful of their mental health. Maybe they want to chat/vent or maybe they don’t but just remember there are plenty or resources to help them like Panda who supports the mental health and well being of expecting, new and growing families through a range of information, services & programs – 1300 726 306.
So bestie, are you ready for your new role as ‘Aunty/Uncle ….’
The Golden Yoni Membership, led by Rosie Rees, offers immediate access to fourteen enriching modules, inclusive of a bonus Yoni Egg Initiations module. Enjoy different 6-day live Yoni Egg Immersion, guided tutorials, meditations, and connect with a community in a dedicated members-only Facebook group, all at your own pace and without contractual obligations. The program spans various topics, including Yoni Egg Yoga through the 7 Chakras, creating a safe space for sexuality exploration, and understanding the connection between sex, money, and business. Rosie continuously adds new content weekly to ensure a dynamic learning experience. Guest experts contribute to the diverse range of teachings, making this membership a holistic platform for those seeking to reconnect with their Yoni, heal from past traumas, and unlock new levels of pleasure and empowerment.
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As a healed sex addict I had been intimate with over 700 people in my life. After healing my addiction I decided to become celibate until I met the right partner, and my sexual healing journey was a big priority for me.
I did a lot of research and tried many things to help remove this negative energy exchange, and shared trauma that I didn’t know I even had taken on. I took on all different energies, not only emotional, but physical, and spiritual as well.
I met with Rosie the owner of the Yoni Pleasure Palace at Sexpo, the Lifestyle Exhibition whilst I was MCing the event, and we discussed in depth, the healing benefits of the Rose Quartz Yoni Egg. I was enlightened and excited about the idea of a physical process to transform this situation.
I am definitely into trying new things, and I do believe in the healing power of crystals but I did not know to what extent I was about to experience a cleansing, major healing. It was phenomenal.
My First Yoni Egg Experience
I decided to purchase the drilled Rose Quartz Yoni Egg so that I could put some Eco String through the hole to help remove it. I was both excited and a bit dubious at first about inserting it in case it got stuck or fell out, but I trusted the process. I knew that by releasing expectations, fears, and attachments to the outcome I would have a genuinely wonderful experience.
After cleansing it in warm soapy water, I turned on some binaural beats, and put some root chakra essential oils on.
I gently inserted it, and it felt warm at first, but then I couldn’t feel it anymore, which is normal until you start to get more sensitivity by using the Yoni Egg more regularly.
I laid down and closed my eyes. My intention was to do a guided meditation, but I didn’t get the chance to start my own. The Rose Quartz Yoni Egg took over my meditation and guided me. What an experience!
My Spiritual Awakening
It blew my mind. As I was laying there, I could see in my mind's eye, also known as the third eye, two white arms, and hands on either side of my hips. And in a butterfly stroke-like motion they were cleansing my root chakra in an up-and-down motion from the top of my hips to the bottom of my legs.
This, I felt, was removing any negative or traumatic energy still attached to my Yoni.
It was phenomenal. Regardless of what I did, close my eyes, open my eyes, I could see the arms and hands moving, non-stop for fifteen minutes. I surrendered and allowed the process to occur.
I have never had such an experience before. I felt cleansed, whole, nurtured, and happy. After that, I decided to not allow any more unwanted energy into my body. That it was my sacred space.
I was celibate for 18 months. Then I met the most incredible man. Whilst I am spiritual, and in tune with souls not of this world, it is easy for me to experience these things. But it doesn’t mean you can’t either.
My recommendation when inserting your Yoni Egg is to
Your journey is yours only.
There are many reasons to use a Yoni Egg, there are also many different crystals that work with different types of energy, healing, and love. Do your research on what is best for you, and know you don’t have to stop at one type.
Don’t feel embarrassed to ask the team what you need, they are experts, and will guide you. Or simply ask yourself, “what would I like to achieve with this process”? Is it self-love, healing, or protection? Intuitively you will find the answer.
This was such a beautiful process that I would love more women and people with a womb to experience. It is magical, healing, and I am so grateful I experienced it.’
Much love
Belinda x
The Golden Yoni Membership, led by Rosie Rees, offers immediate access to fourteen enriching modules, inclusive of a bonus Yoni Egg Initiations module. Enjoy different 6-day live Yoni Egg Immersion, guided tutorials, meditations, and connect with a community in a dedicated members-only Facebook group, all at your own pace and without contractual obligations. The program spans various topics, including Yoni Egg Yoga through the 7 Chakras, creating a safe space for sexuality exploration, and understanding the connection between sex, money, and business. Rosie continuously adds new content weekly to ensure a dynamic learning experience. Guest experts contribute to the diverse range of teachings, making this membership a holistic platform for those seeking to reconnect with their Yoni, heal from past traumas, and unlock new levels of pleasure and empowerment.
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Today we are here to share some juicy secrets about adding that extra sparkle and sizzle to your love life. So, let's get our naughty hats on and explore the wonderful world of sexual spontaneity!
It seems counterintuitive to “set the mood” when talking about spontaneous and exciting sex, but we truly have to create the moments to take advantage of when we are busy living our day-to-day life.
When you feel sexy, you’re more likely to share that with your partner, so shave your legs, moisturise, pop on some sexy knickers and invite your partner to eat you for dinner on the kitchen bench... Half the thrill of spontaneous sex is knowing what’s coming and seeing how your partner delights in it.
Dim the lights, light some scented candles, and put on soft, sexy music. Explore the world of aphrodisiacs by incorporating them into your meals or enjoying a glass of wine together. Dance around and tease your partner with nothing but a t-shirt on.
Get into the mood with Rosie's sexy Spotify playlist
In the hustle and bustle of daily life, it's easy to let quality time with your partner slip away. However, investing time in your relationship is crucial for fostering spontaneity in the bedroom. Schedule regular date nights to reconnect and focus solely on each other. Engage in activities that encourage intimacy and playfulness, such as cooking together, taking long walks, or even trying a new hobby as a couple. These shared experiences strengthen your bond and provide fertile ground for passionate moments.
Spontaneity thrives on surprises, and what better way to keep the flame burning bright than by indulging in sensual surprises? Leave a love note in your partner's pocket, send a suggestive text during the day, or leave a trail of rose petals in the bedroom. Surprise your partner with a new lingerie set or a naughty adult game to spice things up. Remember, the unexpected moments of pleasure can lead to unforgettable encounters.
Stepping out of your comfort zone and exploring new territories together can be incredibly exhilarating. Talk openly about your fantasies, desires, and secret dreams with your partner. Together, you can brainstorm ways to incorporate them into your love life. Consider role-playing, experimenting with different positions, or introducing sex toys for added excitement. Exploring new horizons keeps things fresh and invigorates your connection. What would usually be “regular sex”, whispering something unexpected and seeing how it can shift gears and create a completely satisfying, toe-curling encounter.
Taking risks can ignite a fire within you and your partner. Plan a weekend getaway to a secluded cabin, try skinny dipping under the moonlight, or engage in public displays of affection in a discreet location. These shared adventures create a sense of thrill and excitement, reminding you both of the electrifying passion you share. Long drives are the ultimate opportunity to get freaky with your partner, pull off and recreate the steamy Titanic car scene or get wild over the bonnet of the car. Added benefits of fresh air!
If you’re a parent reading this, you may think, yeah, sex with kids is so hard - and we understand! In this season of life and your relationship, you have to work hard to make sex and connection a priority. If you have the support available, a visit with the grandparents for a few hours while you and your partner go for a drive or out for dinner is essential, and you can spice up that innocent child-free dinner with a side of sex.
Remember, the key to sexual spontaneity lies in maintaining an open and honest line of communication with your partner. Discuss your desires, boundaries, and fantasies, and be receptive to their needs. Keep the playful spirit alive, and never be afraid to express yourself or suggest something new. Incorporating these strategies into your relationship will create a vibrant and adventurous love life where sexual spontaneity flourishes.
Now, go forth and unleash the magic in your relationship! Remember, you deserve a love life bursting with passion and excitement. And always remember, my dear friends, to keep the flame burning bright, nurture your connection, and embrace the wonderful gift of sexual spontaneity.
The Golden Yoni Membership, led by Rosie Rees, offers immediate access to fourteen enriching modules, inclusive of a bonus Yoni Egg Initiations module. Enjoy different 6-day live Yoni Egg Immersion, guided tutorials, meditations, and connect with a community in a dedicated members-only Facebook group, all at your own pace and without contractual obligations. The program spans various topics, including Yoni Egg Yoga through the 7 Chakras, creating a safe space for sexuality exploration, and understanding the connection between sex, money, and business. Rosie continuously adds new content weekly to ensure a dynamic learning experience. Guest experts contribute to the diverse range of teachings, making this membership a holistic platform for those seeking to reconnect with their Yoni, heal from past traumas, and unlock new levels of pleasure and empowerment.
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Please note: this is not professional advice, and we recommend seeking the support of a therapist for ongoing professional support throughout this journey.
The first step towards embracing your sexual empowerment is acknowledging and understanding the impact of the conditioning you've experienced. Reflect on the beliefs and messages you were exposed to regarding sex, pleasure, and your body. Recognise that these messages were a product of societal norms and personal beliefs and may not align with your authentic self.
Shame and guilt often accompany a strict or repressive sexual upbringing. Understand that these emotions are not yours to carry. Forgive yourself for any perceived mistakes or "sins" and embrace a mindset of self-compassion. Recognise that your sexuality is a natural and beautiful aspect of your being, deserving of love, acceptance, and exploration.
Some ways to work through these feelings of guilt and shame are Journaling, EFT (emotional freedom technique or tapping), Reiki & Breathwork.
Knowledge is power! Take the time to educate yourself about healthy sexuality, consent, and pleasure. Seek reputable sources, books, podcasts, or workshops that provide accurate and inclusive information about human sexuality. Empower yourself with the knowledge that aligns with your values and helps you understand diverse sexual experiences and identities. The Golden Yoni Membership is a wonderful resource for women.
Take charge of your narrative and redefine what sexuality means to you. Reflect on your desires, preferences, and boundaries without judgement. Explore what brings you pleasure and fulfilment. Remember, your sexual journey is unique and personal. Embrace the freedom to define a healthy and fulfilling sexual life.
Breaking free from deeply ingrained conditioning can be challenging, so don't hesitate to seek support. Connect with like-minded individuals, join support groups, or consider therapy or coaching focused on sexual empowerment. Surround yourself with a loving and accepting community that encourages your growth and celebrates your journey. Check out The Golden Yoni Membership or contact the team at YPP to arrange a private session with Rosie.
Engage in self-exploration and self-pleasure to reconnect with your body and desires. Take the time to discover what feels pleasurable and exciting for you. Self-exploration allows you to reclaim ownership of your body and embrace a deeper understanding of your sexual needs and preferences. When getting started on your self-exploration journey, we love to recommend crystal wands and Yoni Eggs. Rose Quartz is a beautiful and nurturing stone that will support you in cultivating self-love and releasing negative emotions that will likely arise. Check out the Rose Quartz Yoni Egg here and or Rose Quartz Wand Collection.
As you step into your sexually empowered self, it's essential to communicate your desires, boundaries and needs with your partner(s). Cultivate open and honest conversations about sexuality, consent, and pleasure. Foster a safe and trusting environment where you can explore and express yourselves authentically.
Embracing your sexuality after growing up in a sexually shaming or religious environment is a courageous journey towards self-discovery and empowerment. You deserve to experience pleasure, intimacy, and sexual fulfilment in a way that aligns with your true self. By releasing shame, educating yourself, and surrounding yourself with a supportive community, you can break free from conditioning and step into your sexually empowered self. Embrace this path with love, compassion, and an unwavering belief in your worthiness of pleasure and joy.
The Golden Yoni Membership, led by Rosie Rees, offers immediate access to fourteen enriching modules, inclusive of a bonus Yoni Egg Initiations module. Enjoy different 6-day live Yoni Egg Immersion, guided tutorials, meditations, and connect with a community in a dedicated members-only Facebook group, all at your own pace and without contractual obligations. The program spans various topics, including Yoni Egg Yoga through the 7 Chakras, creating a safe space for sexuality exploration, and understanding the connection between sex, money, and business. Rosie continuously adds new content weekly to ensure a dynamic learning experience. Guest experts contribute to the diverse range of teachings, making this membership a holistic platform for those seeking to reconnect with their Yoni, heal from past traumas, and unlock new levels of pleasure and empowerment.
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Before embarking on the journey of sharing your fantasies, embracing and accepting your desires as a natural part of who you are is essential. There's nothing wrong or shameful about exploring your sexuality. Allow yourself to release any judgement or guilt holding you back. Accepting and embracing your desires gives you the confidence to communicate them with your partner. Journaling around your desires and fantasies might be a great first step in understanding what you want and helping you to feel confident communicating it.
This Journal by Sammi is a beautiful place to start
The Pleasure Journal includes prompts to support your exploration
Building a foundation of trust and safety is vital when discussing intimate matters. Find a comfortable and private space where you and your partner can converse openly without distractions. Express your desire for open communication and assure your partner that you value their feelings and boundaries. Create an atmosphere of acceptance and non-judgment, emphasising that this conversation is about enhancing your connection and pleasure. Sometimes, having these conversations OUTSIDE of the bedroom is the better approach as it can take away that pressure to perform or immediately take action on the thoughts you’re discussing.
If you're shy or unsure about expressing your fantasies, starting with small steps is perfectly okay. Begin by talking about your desires in a general sense without going into explicit details. For example, you can say, "I've been thinking about trying something new and exciting in the bedroom. What do you think about exploring different ways to enhance our intimacy?" This opens the door for further conversation and allows your partner to share their thoughts.
Sometimes, finding the right words can be a challenge. In such cases, let other forms of expression talk for you. Share a steamy novel or an intimate movie that aligns with your desires. Watching or reading together can spark conversations and create a relaxed atmosphere to discuss your desires. You can say, "I came across this book/movie, and it got me thinking about what we could explore together. What are your thoughts?
If you find it challenging to express your fantasies directly, a playful and lighthearted approach can work wonders. Engage in a "What If" game where you and your partner take turns sharing hypothetical scenarios or fantasies. This game creates a safe space to discuss desires without feeling vulnerable or exposed. It can lead to exciting conversations and help you explore new ideas together.
A heartfelt and sensual love note can do wonders for those who find it difficult to express themselves verbally. Take a moment to write down your desires, fantasies, and what you'd love to explore with your partner. Express your love, admiration, and excitement for your shared intimacy. Leave the note where your partner will find it, creating a surprise that invites further conversation and ignites curiosity.
If you're hesitant about sharing your desires, explore new ideas to reignite your relationship’s passion. Research together, read articles or listen to podcasts about spicing things up in the bedroom. This external inspiration can open up discussions and create a safe platform for both of you to share your desires, knowing that you're on this journey together.
Open communication is the key to a fulfilling and passionate love life. Take it slow, create a safe space, and be gentle with yourself. The more you practise expressing your desires, the easier it will become. Your partner will be grateful for your openness, and together you can embark on a journey of exploration and pleasure.
The Golden Yoni Membership, led by Rosie Rees, offers immediate access to fourteen enriching modules, inclusive of a bonus Yoni Egg Initiations module. Enjoy different 6-day live Yoni Egg Immersion, guided tutorials, meditations, and connect with a community in a dedicated members-only Facebook group, all at your own pace and without contractual obligations. The program spans various topics, including Yoni Egg Yoga through the 7 Chakras, creating a safe space for sexuality exploration, and understanding the connection between sex, money, and business. Rosie continuously adds new content weekly to ensure a dynamic learning experience. Guest experts contribute to the diverse range of teachings, making this membership a holistic platform for those seeking to reconnect with their Yoni, heal from past traumas, and unlock new levels of pleasure and empowerment.
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When routine takes over, it's time to bring back the art of seduction. Start by flirting with your partner throughout the day—send a playful text, leave a provocative note, or surprise them with a sensuous touch. Build anticipation and create a sense of excitement that carries into the bedroom. You’ll set the stage for passionate encounters by keeping the seductive energy alive.
Open and honest communication is the key to spicing things up in the bedroom. Have a heartfelt conversation with your partner about your desires, fantasies, and what you both crave from your intimate moments. Encourage them to share their desires as well. Communicating openly creates an environment where exploration and experimentation can flourish.
Routine thrives on predictability, so it's time to break free from the mould and try new things together. Explore uncharted territory by introducing new positions, experimenting with different sensations, or incorporating toys or accessories. Step out of your comfort zones and embrace the excitement of the unknown. The key is approaching these new experiences with an open mind and a sense of playfulness.
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Creating a sensual environment can work wonders in elevating sexual satisfaction. Transform your bedroom into a haven of intimacy—soft lighting, scented candles, silky sheets, and soothing music. Engage all your senses to awaken desire and set a passionate mood. Creating an ambience that nourishes sensuality will invite a deeper connection with your partner.
Amid routine, it's easy to forget to prioritise quality time with your partner. Set aside dedicated moments to reconnect and nurture your bond. Plan regular date nights where you can indulge in activities that ignite passion and playfulness. Engage in shared hobbies, take long walks, or surprise each other with thoughtful gestures. Investing time and attention in your relationship will strengthen the foundation for a satisfying love life.
Routine craves spontaneity. Break free from the predictable and embrace spontaneity in your intimate moments. Surprise your partner with impromptu encounters or create a fantasy jar filled with sexy ideas you can pick from randomly. Embracing the unexpected injects an exhilarating element into your love life, reigniting the fire that may have dulled over time.
Emotional intimacy is the backbone of a satisfying sexual connection. Connect with your partner on a deeper level outside the bedroom. Engage in heartfelt conversations, share your dreams and fears, and show genuine interest in each other's lives. When emotional intimacy thrives, it naturally spills over into physical intimacy, creating a more fulfilling and passionate experience.
Enhancing sexual satisfaction is a journey—a playful dance between rediscovery, communication, and a sprinkle of adventure. Embrace the unknown, nurture your connection, and infuse your love life with the magic it deserves.
The Golden Yoni Membership, led by Rosie Rees, offers immediate access to fourteen enriching modules, inclusive of a bonus Yoni Egg Initiations module. Enjoy different 6-day live Yoni Egg Immersion, guided tutorials, meditations, and connect with a community in a dedicated members-only Facebook group, all at your own pace and without contractual obligations. The program spans various topics, including Yoni Egg Yoga through the 7 Chakras, creating a safe space for sexuality exploration, and understanding the connection between sex, money, and business. Rosie continuously adds new content weekly to ensure a dynamic learning experience. Guest experts contribute to the diverse range of teachings, making this membership a holistic platform for those seeking to reconnect with their Yoni, heal from past traumas, and unlock new levels of pleasure and empowerment.
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Squirting is an event where a vulva owner releases liquid from their urethra (pee hole) during sexual stimulation. It’s been a talking point for sexual health experts and researchers for aeons.
Unlike vaginal lubrication, where a person's vagina secretes a white and milky fluid when they're aroused, squirting involves a clear and odourless fluid, typically in excess. Squirting can happen before, during, or after an orgasm.
Since squirting and sex are considered taboo in many cultures and require sexual stimulation to achieve this experience, it's hard to study due to a general unwillingness of people wanting to be a part of the research.
However, in a 2013 review of squirting studies, OB-GYN Dr Zlatko Pastor wrote that an estimated 54% of women have reported the ability to squirt. We believe all vulva owners have the ability to, but perhaps haven’t nailed the technique required to achieve it.
Research shows that squirting is related to glands in the urethral sponge, which is embedded in the vaginal walls along the sides of the urethra. These glands, called Skene's glands, are part of the urination process.
Well, no! Researchers have looked at the chemical composition of female ejaculate (squirt) and found some chemicals that are in urine as well as a prostate‐specific antigen. This is a chemical found in semen, which has established the reference to "female ejaculation."
There’s still a question about where this fluid reservoir is held. The theory is the bladder but the function of the ejaculate and urine are two separate things.
There may be an involuntary release of small amounts of urine while squirting, creating a mixture of fluids. The amount of urine depends on when the person peed last and how hydrated they are.
Let’s look at things this way: A penis owner ejaculates and urinates from the same opening, however, we don’t consider ejaculate to be pee so squirting should be considered in the same way.
You may not have squirted before, but that doesn’t mean you’re not able to! We believe that every vulva owner has the ability to squirt and we actively teach you how to do it through Squirt School.
We’ve also developed a number of products to help you achieve this like our best-selling sacred squirter and of course, the splash blanket, developed specifically to help you relax into a gushing, wet and sloppy sexcapade!
The Golden Yoni Membership, led by Rosie Rees, offers immediate access to fourteen enriching modules, inclusive of a bonus Yoni Egg Initiations module. Enjoy different 6-day live Yoni Egg Immersion, guided tutorials, meditations, and connect with a community in a dedicated members-only Facebook group, all at your own pace and without contractual obligations. The program spans various topics, including Yoni Egg Yoga through the 7 Chakras, creating a safe space for sexuality exploration, and understanding the connection between sex, money, and business. Rosie continuously adds new content weekly to ensure a dynamic learning experience. Guest experts contribute to the diverse range of teachings, making this membership a holistic platform for those seeking to reconnect with their Yoni, heal from past traumas, and unlock new levels of pleasure and empowerment.
Here’s me on day two of my honeymoon, presenting my yoni to the beaming Thailand sun to receive the Vitamin D I desperately needed after falling sick with a nasty cold a day after our wedding day. After being up so high, I crashed down so low! But within a few days of sunshine (not just on my genitals), coconuts, steam rooms and deep relaxation, I started to feel better. Check out the post in Instagram here.
‘Yoni Sunning’ is something I’ve been doing for many years and for many different reasons. Every day, when the sun’s out, I am out! I usually sun my whole body for 10-15 minutes on each side (in the low UV time of day - generally not between 11am-2pm) and open my yoni to the sun for 30-60 seconds on the front and on the back.
Feeling the warmth from the sun between your thighs is not just a new age fad. Otherwise known as ‘Perineum sunning’, it’s an ancient Taoist practice which is said to absorb solar “prana” into the genitalia, helping to increase your life force energy and awaken creative juices. Opening your legs to the sun for a few minutes a day can have a multitude of positive impacts on your body.
According to an article circulating the internet for the past few years, “30 seconds of sunlight on your perineum, is the equivalent of a full day of sunlight with your clothes on”. I’d love to see the actual science on this, but going off what cats have been doing their whole life, I can believe it. Jokes (and cats) aside, we all know the more vitamin D we receive the happier we feel, the healthier we are and the better our quality of sleep. Win, win, win!
Many people say they feel immediate surges of energy, "high" even, after a few minutes shining their butthole to the sun! Coincidence? Maybe! Or maybe the sensitive layers of our perineum skin soaks up that solar juju faster than our other tougher layers of skin…
Want to enhance your mood, digestion, immune system, wound healing or sexual desire? Yoni sunning might help! Check out @laurenannekennedy_ and her reel that went viral on this. Sunlight therapy was around long before new age medications or antibiotics, so it's worth a shot if you need to give your immunity a boost!
By opening your legs to the sun for 30 seconds, your genitals are bound to feel warm, open and exposed. This might bring about feelings of arousal, turn on, kinkiness and sexual energy. Notice if you get wet (or hard) next time you feel the warmth on your nether regions and use that energy to self pleasure. Join The Golden Yoni Membership for yoni yoga, self pleasure practices and to learn how to give yourself ultimate pleasure solo or with a partner.
When your sexual energy is flowing, as is your creative energy, so it's no surprise that after a few minutes of yoni sunning, you may feel a burst of creative inspiration & flow. So if you're feeling a creative blockage, try connecting to your sex centre and giving it some sunshine!
Try doing your next yoga practice, meditation or gym workout in the sunshine (and flash your bits for half a minute) and notice the revitalising benefits! Moderation is key, so always listen to your body.
Rosie x
The Golden Yoni Membership, led by Rosie Rees, offers immediate access to fourteen enriching modules, inclusive of a bonus Yoni Egg Initiations module. Enjoy different 6-day live Yoni Egg Immersion, guided tutorials, meditations, and connect with a community in a dedicated members-only Facebook group, all at your own pace and without contractual obligations. The program spans various topics, including Yoni Egg Yoga through the 7 Chakras, creating a safe space for sexuality exploration, and understanding the connection between sex, money, and business. Rosie continuously adds new content weekly to ensure a dynamic learning experience. Guest experts contribute to the diverse range of teachings, making this membership a holistic platform for those seeking to reconnect with their Yoni, heal from past traumas, and unlock new levels of pleasure and empowerment.
These small gestures can make you feel more confident and secure in your relationship when you're out in public. Why not give these ones a go:
It’s a simple way to establish that you and your partner are in a committed relationship and not interested in anyone else. Putting your arm around your partner's waist or shoulders is another way to show subtle displays of affection and can show your partner that you're protective of them and want to keep them close.
Giving your partner a quick peck on the cheek or forehead shows your partner that you care and is a socially appropriate one for almost any setting like family gatherings
Whispering into your partner's ear is another way to show subtle displays of affection. It's a private moment that only the two of you can share, and it can make your partner feel special. Whispering sweet nothings can also help to establish a connection between the two of you and make you feel closer to each other.
By showing subtle displays of affection, you're making it clear to others that you and your partner are in a committed relationship. These small gestures can help to make you feel more confident and secure in your relationship when you're out in public, especially if you're shy. So don't be afraid to show your love for your partner in subtle ways next time you're out in public together. It's a great way to make you and your partner feel special.
The Golden Yoni Membership, led by Rosie Rees, offers immediate access to fourteen enriching modules, inclusive of a bonus Yoni Egg Initiations module. Enjoy different 6-day live Yoni Egg Immersion, guided tutorials, meditations, and connect with a community in a dedicated members-only Facebook group, all at your own pace and without contractual obligations. The program spans various topics, including Yoni Egg Yoga through the 7 Chakras, creating a safe space for sexuality exploration, and understanding the connection between sex, money, and business. Rosie continuously adds new content weekly to ensure a dynamic learning experience. Guest experts contribute to the diverse range of teachings, making this membership a holistic platform for those seeking to reconnect with their Yoni, heal from past traumas, and unlock new levels of pleasure and empowerment.
The truth is that the honeymoon phase is just that - a phase. It typically lasts three to six months before things start to become more “serious” and seemingly less exciting. The initial spark is not meant to last forever, and when it fades, it doesn’t mean your relationship is doomed. Instead, it’s up to you and your partner to find ways to keep the spark alive and maintain the connection you once had.
Another relationship myth is the 7-year itch, where partners start to feel bored and disconnected. This stems from research uncovering a theme of cheating and/or breakups around the 7-year milestone.
Here are some suggestions to help reignite and maintain the passion, playfulness, and intimacy in your long-term relationship:
Communication is key to any successful relationship, especially those that stand the test of time. It’s important to remember that your partner can’t read your mind, so regularly check in and share your thoughts, feelings, and desires. Be open to listening to your partner and their needs as well.
It’s easy to fall into a routine in a long-term relationship, but it’s important to keep things fresh and exciting. Try new things together; hobbies, restaurants, vacation spots. Why not go for a cheeky drive and get frisky on the side of the road or in a secluded area?
When you move out of your comfort zone and experience new things together, it naturally brings excitement and novelty to the relationship.
Make time for each other in the monotony of everyday life. Set aside time each week for a date night or a weekend getaway. It doesn’t have to be extravagant; going for a walk, having a movie night, or cooking together. Remember, quality time is all about being present and engaged with each other. Conversely, give yourself an opportunity to miss each other with time apart. This can break up the routine and create space to bring light back to your relationship but must be agreed on by both partners.
This is an essential part of any relationship, especially in a long-term one. Make time for physical intimacy, whether cuddling, kissing, having sex, trying new things or exploring each other’s bodies. Physical touch outside of sexual intimacy, like holding hands or hugging, can help maintain the connection between you and your partner. Try incorporating open-mouth kissing on the daily!
In a long-term relationship, you can fall into the trap of taking each other for granted. It’s important to show appreciation and gratitude regularly. Expressing your love and appreciation through words, gestures, and gifts can help keep the spark alive. Don’t forget to acknowledge and celebrate the things that make your partner special and unique.
The honeymoon phase may have ended, but that doesn’t mean your relationship has to. By working to maintain your connection and reignite the passion and intimacy between you and your partner, you can continue to build a fulfilling and loving relationship for years to come.
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The Golden Yoni Membership, led by Rosie Rees, offers immediate access to fourteen enriching modules, inclusive of a bonus Yoni Egg Initiations module. Enjoy different 6-day live Yoni Egg Immersion, guided tutorials, meditations, and connect with a community in a dedicated members-only Facebook group, all at your own pace and without contractual obligations. The program spans various topics, including Yoni Egg Yoga through the 7 Chakras, creating a safe space for sexuality exploration, and understanding the connection between sex, money, and business. Rosie continuously adds new content weekly to ensure a dynamic learning experience. Guest experts contribute to the diverse range of teachings, making this membership a holistic platform for those seeking to reconnect with their Yoni, heal from past traumas, and unlock new levels of pleasure and empowerment.
If you're struggling to reconnect with your partner after childbirth, don't despair.
One of the most critical aspects of any relationship is communication and this becomes even more crucial after childbirth. Talk to your partner about how you're feeling, your needs, and your concerns. Share your thoughts about the changes in your relationship and how you can work together to navigate them. Be open and honest, and remember to listen to your partner's perspective. Often one of the bigger challenges that come with bringing a new baby into the world is the non-birthing partner can’t relate to what the birthing partner is experiencing physically, hormonally, emotionally and mentally. It’s a different experience for both parties and finding a way to communicate effectively is paramount to navigating these waters. Reaching out to a counsellor can be a great pre-emptive move to support your relationship stability when everything else might feel like it’s been thrown into chaos.
It's easy to get caught up in the responsibilities of parenting and forget about your relationship. Making time for each other, even if it's just for a few minutes each day, will increase oxytocin and dopamine, the love and happiness hormones. Schedule date nights or weekend getaways to spend quality time together. If you can't leave your child, plan a cosy night-in after they go to bed. Watch what happens when you cherish the things that might have once seemed small; kissing, cuddling on the couch, and watching a movie together. Find ways to connect and relax away from your little one.
Taking care of a newborn can be exhausting, and it's easy to neglect your own needs in the process. Taking care of yourself is essential to maintaining a healthy relationship with your partner. Make time for self-care activities, such as exercise, meditation, or a relaxing bath. When you feel good about yourself, you're more likely to be present and engaged with your partner. One of the greatest suggestions we can offer new parents is do something for yourself as soon as you physically can; wash your hair, put on a face mask, shave your legs if you desire. It might feel like a slog at the time but we promise you’ll feel much better after.
If you're feeling overwhelmed or struggling to adjust to the changes after childbirth, don't hesitate to seek help. Talk to a therapist or a counsellor who can provide you with the support and guidance you need. Additionally, if you're experiencing physical or emotional issues, such as postpartum depression, seek medical attention. Remember, taking care of your mental and physical health is essential to your relationship with your partner. If you’re carrying all of the pressure on your shoulders, you will feel depleted and as the saying goes, ‘you can’t pour from an empty cup.’ All of the above suggestions will help you fill your own cup, but there’s no shame in asking for help. Having children is a huge adjustment whether it’s your first baby or adding more to your family, the change in dynamic is draining.
Intimacy doesn't always have to be about sex. Holding hands, cuddling, and kissing are all ways to connect with your partner physically. Make an effort to touch your partner affectionately, even if it's just a simple gesture. Additionally, verbal communication can be intimate too. Express your love and appreciation for your partner through words of affirmation. Remember, small gestures can go a long way in reigniting intimacy.
Reconnecting with your partner after childbirth takes effort and commitment. You and your partner are in this together, and with a little patience and love, you can navigate the changes of parenthood and come out even stronger.
The Golden Yoni Membership, led by Rosie Rees, offers immediate access to fourteen enriching modules, inclusive of a bonus Yoni Egg Initiations module. Enjoy different 6-day live Yoni Egg Immersion, guided tutorials, meditations, and connect with a community in a dedicated members-only Facebook group, all at your own pace and without contractual obligations. The program spans various topics, including Yoni Egg Yoga through the 7 Chakras, creating a safe space for sexuality exploration, and understanding the connection between sex, money, and business. Rosie continuously adds new content weekly to ensure a dynamic learning experience. Guest experts contribute to the diverse range of teachings, making this membership a holistic platform for those seeking to reconnect with their Yoni, heal from past traumas, and unlock new levels of pleasure and empowerment.
In this week's instalment of Masturbation May, I want to share the five things I believe should be in every vulva owner’s top drawer to support them in their self-exploration and pleasure practice. I’ve said it every week, but the climax isn’t the goal; masturbation is about pleasure, discovering what you like and don’t.
It may seem a little unconventional for your masturbation tool kit, and this falls into the self-exploration category. The Yoni Egg started my whole sexual empowerment journey and led me to bring Yoni Pleasure Palace to life. When I began my yoni egg practice, I experienced sexual healing, increased sensation, and more. There is something extraordinary about using a crystal yoni egg on this journey, and inside The Golden Yoni Membership, there is a whole module that takes you through Yoni Egg use and my story with it.
In the Yoni Pleasure Palace Shop, there is a wide range of glass and crystal options. Some of our best sellers include the Sacred Squirter, Cervix Serpent, Black Mamba & the Empress. If you’ve never tried using glass or crystal before, it can be hard to imagine how something so cold and hard could be pleasurable - which is why silicones and rubbers are so much more popular because they are more “life-like”. If you are new to glass or crystal, we recommend going for a curved shape, so you can access the g-spot and something with a handle or bulbous end for you to hold.
It’s a rite of passage to have a vibrator at some point in your life. Use them sparingly, though, as they can overstimulate and desensitise the clitoris, making it numb and harder to reach climax. At times it can become impossible to reach climax without that intense vibration stimulating the clitoris. We designed the Suki and Flick vibrators to suck or flick the clitoris, and they aren’t as intense as a classic bullet or rabbit vibrator, so many of us are familiar with them. The Suki & Flick double as a cock ring for you to use with a penis or dildo for added sensation and variety.
A small butt plug is an excellent addition to your pleasure kit. It provides an added sense of fullness and new sensations while receiving pleasure through penetration or clitoral stimulation.
It’s important to remember to use an excellent quality organic lubricant with anal; the oil-based lube from Yinn Body is perfect for this. It’s smooth, slippery and has added moisturisation benefits around the anus. Being a sensitive area with limited elasticity, looking after your body, keeping it supple and responding to sensation is essential. We don’t endorse using numbing creams or lubes for anal.
Having a small or extra small Splash Blanket underneath you anytime you’re aroused is a must! The Splash Blanket is double-sided, plush, soft, luxurious and 100% waterproof. As you dive deeper into self-pleasure and sexual exploration, you’re opening yourself up to becoming more aroused, squirting, and making a mess. It’s all part of the fun. Having a Splash Blanket gives you a sense of security and safety to just let go and enjoy every moment instead of worrying about making a mess or stripping the bed, ruining the sheets or getting oil and lube stains everywhere.
If you have sex, you should have a Splash Blanket - or many!
I hope you have enjoyed this 5-week self-pleasure series for Masturbation May!
Join The Golden Yoni Membership and see how you can take your sexual empowerment to new heights!
The Golden Yoni Membership, led by Rosie Rees, offers immediate access to fourteen enriching modules, inclusive of a bonus Yoni Egg Initiations module. Enjoy different 6-day live Yoni Egg Immersion, guided tutorials, meditations, and connect with a community in a dedicated members-only Facebook group, all at your own pace and without contractual obligations. The program spans various topics, including Yoni Egg Yoga through the 7 Chakras, creating a safe space for sexuality exploration, and understanding the connection between sex, money, and business. Rosie continuously adds new content weekly to ensure a dynamic learning experience. Guest experts contribute to the diverse range of teachings, making this membership a holistic platform for those seeking to reconnect with their Yoni, heal from past traumas, and unlock new levels of pleasure and empowerment.
Using your breath during masturbation helps to cultivate relaxed arousal and generate a sense of sexual healing. Masturbating isn't just about getting off; it’s a way to release and let go of our emotions, our thoughts - anything we have held onto, which we are so good at! We store these emotions in our Yoni, which can lead to numbness, pain, detachment and more. We have been conditioned to self-pleasure in a way that is quick and quiet, we want to get it over and done with, and this can filter into our sex lives with partners too, with less focus on the pleasure, instead, just getting to the climax and get on with your day. So Yoni Pleasure Palace is on a mission to rewire and unravel that conditioning around masturbation.
One way to rewire this conditioning is through breath and sound.
But let’s be honest, being loud while masturbating can be way too triggering! So engaging the breath is the step before that. Breathe slowly and deeply through your nose and exhale through your mouth. Continue this breathing practice throughout your masturbation time, and as you continue breathing this way, you will feel more comfortable and more willing to express yourself vocally.
You can start to sigh or moan, whatever you feel needs to come out. As time goes on with easing into expression while masturbating, you may find yourself having big emotional releases, crying, laughing, and screaming - It’s therapy, and it’s free!
Whenever you want to step into that relaxed arousal, lengthen your breath, slow down your breathing, deepen your breathing, or expand your lungs.
Imagine yourself releasing those trapped fears, thoughts and beliefs with each exhale. This practice, combined with a Yoni Egg practice is very powerful in healing trauma, tension, and numbness. These stored emotions block us from experiencing pleasure.
Use your breath as a healing tool to release and let go of what no longer serves you. Your breath can also make you feel high! Your breath can take you to a naturally euphoric state, your nerve endings become alive, and can be woven into your self-pleasure practice to take you to a whole new dimension when masturbating!
Over in this week's challenge video in The Golden Yoni Membership, I’m sharing some breathing techniques that you can use to activate your self-pleasure practice.
The Golden Yoni Membership, led by Rosie Rees, offers immediate access to fourteen enriching modules, inclusive of a bonus Yoni Egg Initiations module. Enjoy different 6-day live Yoni Egg Immersion, guided tutorials, meditations, and connect with a community in a dedicated members-only Facebook group, all at your own pace and without contractual obligations. The program spans various topics, including Yoni Egg Yoga through the 7 Chakras, creating a safe space for sexuality exploration, and understanding the connection between sex, money, and business. Rosie continuously adds new content weekly to ensure a dynamic learning experience. Guest experts contribute to the diverse range of teachings, making this membership a holistic platform for those seeking to reconnect with their Yoni, heal from past traumas, and unlock new levels of pleasure and empowerment.
As the saying goes, neurons that fire together wire together, so when you’re doing the same thing every single time, it becomes an engrained path, and this can lead to boredom, taking longer to become turned on, less horny, reaching climax becomes the goal because the “getting there” is predictable, rather than the pleasure and the play being the fun part.
When we open our field of awareness and perception, and try something a little different, something unknown, it can be a little uncomfortable at first because you don’t know where it will lead you. Once you get past that unfamiliar feeling, there’s a heightened excitement and anticipation for what's to come, and your senses become more receptive.
This week's challenge is to change how you self-pleasure.
More often than not, in our teenage years, we discover self-pleasure, find what feels good, and tend to just stick to that. As humans, it’s in our nature to want to know what’s coming next and how it will play out. There is security in doing what we’ve always done.
Changing things up adds spice to your life and your masturbation practice.
If you typically approach self-pleasure with external vibration, try popping that in the drawer for the week and practising with internal pleasure.
If you watch porn when you masturbate, try not watching porn and learn what sensations turn you on, which you may have discovered in last week's challenge.
Remember, the orgasm isn’t the goal. It’s about self-exploration, learning what feels good and what doesn’t. What turns you on, and what are you not comfortable with?
What is your USUAL way of reaching climax? How can you do things differently? That’s what it comes down to!
As you grow older and wiser, as you change and evolve, your masturbation practice will, too, and it’s a magical experience.
In this week's challenge video inside The Golden Yoni Membership, I’m talking about my sexual evolution in my self-pleasure practice and how I engage in sex with my partner and previous partners.
Join The Golden Yoni Membership to dive into the Masturbation May Challenge and share your experiences in a safe, intimate, empowering space.
The Golden Yoni Membership, led by Rosie Rees, offers immediate access to fourteen enriching modules, inclusive of a bonus Yoni Egg Initiations module. Enjoy different 6-day live Yoni Egg Immersion, guided tutorials, meditations, and connect with a community in a dedicated members-only Facebook group, all at your own pace and without contractual obligations. The program spans various topics, including Yoni Egg Yoga through the 7 Chakras, creating a safe space for sexuality exploration, and understanding the connection between sex, money, and business. Rosie continuously adds new content weekly to ensure a dynamic learning experience. Guest experts contribute to the diverse range of teachings, making this membership a holistic platform for those seeking to reconnect with their Yoni, heal from past traumas, and unlock new levels of pleasure and empowerment.
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