Sex is a holistic experience. We’ve debunked the idea that it’s just penis in vagina or a toy in vagina. Sex can be whatever you want it to be, especially when it comes to foreplay. 

Foreplay allows you to sink into the moment, connect more deeply with your partner, and let pleasure build, leading to more intense orgasms. 

It’s easy to just go through the motions, even when it comes to your foreplay. But your sex life is an opportunity to explore and experience new sensations. These fun foreplay tips will help you do just that!

1) Explore sensory play

A lot of foreplay tends to focus on genitals, but you have a whole body to explore! Sensory play is all about feeling different sensations around your body to see what really gets you going. 

Sensory play can be something as simple as someone breathing in your ear or even tickling you (in a sexy way). A lot of people are really into soft, sensual touches. Think gentle caresses and lingering touch.

You can try it out for yourself with our Boujee Feather Tickler ($90 AUD). The feathers are gentle and light, allowing you to gently caress and tickle your partner's skin, creating a feeling of anticipation and excitement. The tickler can be used to tease and tickle all over the body, including the face, neck, shoulders, and even between the toes.

2) Foreplay on-the-go

If you really want to shake things up in the foreplay arena, why not start before you ever get to the bedroom (or wherever you’re going)? Foreplay can start hours before you actually get down to it. Think flirty sexts, a random make out in the car, or a lingering touch on the inner thigh.

Another hot way to bring foreplay on-the-go is with our Bullet Necklace Vibrator ($79 AUD), a stylish and discreet accessory that doubles as a powerful personal clitoris stimulator. Crafted in luxurious gold-tone metal, this sleek bullet is designed to look like a chic piece of jewelry while offering discreet, on-the-go stimulation whenever you need it.

Add in a little excitement under the dinner table if you’re feeling really frisky, or just let it serve as a reminder of what’s to come (both of you). 

Another portable vibrator is The Ovie Suck and Lick Vibrator ($99 AUD). Pick your poison or mix things up by switching between licking and sucking to unlock a new world of pleasure between your thighs and bliss all over your body. Its compact size and ergonomic design make it the perfect vibe for pleasure anywhere you go. 

3) Try out wax play 

Exploring kink opens so many doors when it comes to foreplay. It gives you and your partner endless ways to connect and experience new sensations. Although it can be a bit intimidating if you’re new to it, wax play can be super sexy foreplay.

The first and most important tip when it comes to trying out wax play is using body-safe wax. Many brands make candles that melt down into a massage oil –– which is a great way to start out. You’ll also want to make sure that the temperature is ok by testing it on the inside of your wrist before dripping it onto any sensitive areas.

You don’t just want to protect sensitive skin, you also want to protect your bed! The Drip Sheet ($39 AUD) is a glossy PVC sheet designed to spark desire whilst keeping your surfaces clean, dry and mess-free. This body-safe, waterproof sheet transforms any surface into a sensual playground. 

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