Emily Matthews is a holistic sex coach, educator, and embodiment practitioner who works online with women and vulva havers around the world, ready to stop performing and start feeling.

At the heart of Emily's work is a simple belief: that your body is not the problem. Whether clients come to her carrying decades of shame, a subtle sense that something is "off" in their intimacy, or a desire to finally understand what they actually want, Emily meets them exactly where they are, with warmth, zero judgment, and a whole lot of practical support.

Emily's signature approach, the Pleasure Portal Process, weaves together somatic tools, body safety practices, and the kind of honest, unhurried conversation most people have never had about sex. Sessions are as much about nervous system regulation and emotional safety as they are about desire, because real pleasure isn't just physical. It lives in how safe we feel, how clearly we can ask for what we want, and how much permission we've given ourselves to want it at all.

Emily holds a 500-hour certification as an Integrative Sex Coach and Sex Educator, trained under a somatic sexologist and medical doctor (OB/GYN), a combination that brings both clinical rigour and deep body-based wisdom to her practice. Her broader training spans emotional clearing, trauma-informed self holding, and feminine embodiment practice. But it's her lived experience of navigating shame, disconnection, and the slow, tender work of reconnecting to desire that truly shapes how she holds space for clients.

When she's not in session, you'll find her in the garden, baking, or curled up with her dog and a very spicy book. For those in Melbourne, she also hosts in-person monthly meetups through the Pleasure Pages Collective, a women's smut book club that's exactly as fun as it sounds.

If you've been waiting for someone who will take your pleasure seriously, without taking themselves too seriously, Emily might just be your person.