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I always tell my clients, if you want to have amazing sex start with a vulnerable conversation. Some of the best sex I have ever had was right after a heart-opening discussion with my partner. It clears the air, builds trust, releases resentment or guilt and is a valuable act of ‘non-sexual intimacy’, which leads to ‘sexual intimacy’.

Losing your libido can feel disheartening, especially if it goes away and doesn't come back for months or even years.

And when it comes to a woman, there is no “quick fix”. Sorry ladies (…and gents), but unfortunately there is no viagra pill to make you dripping wet, gagging for it and horny in an instant.

We all know that confidence is sexy; it’s alluring, appealing and attractive. When someone is confident they’re charismatic, comfortable in their own skin, and oozing radiance and spunk – it’s enviable!

So, does a healthy dose of sexual magnetism = infinite flow of abundance? According to Napoleon Hill, Kim Anami, myself and a bunch of other theorists, it certainly does. Think of it this way… Orgasm clears and opens the energy channels in the body.

There are many women who find that their libido can let them down when it comes to getting frisky between the sheets. Rosie Rees, founder of the Yoni Pleasure Palace shares her top 10 secrets to boosting your libido. 

A lot of women experience pain, disassociation, tension and numbness inside their vagina, making it uncomfortable to have sex, self pleasure or even make it to the toilet.

With sexual dysfunction on the rise and issues such as over-active pelvic floor muscles (vaginal tightness), vulvadynia, vaginismus, prolapse, polycystic ovaries and endometriosis becoming increasingly “normal” for a woman, it’s time we lift the veil on women’s pelvic health and look at it from a holistic point of view.

It was within this bubble of trust and intimacy that I found power in submission; power to explore my physical, emotional, and sexual limits, power to say no to things I was uncomfortable with, and power to express my emotions in any way they surfaced. ‘Submission’ and ‘surrender’ quickly became interchangeable terms for me. Whether it was within a ‘Sub’ and ‘Dom’ relationship, or just the act of submitting to a feeling, I found that I could never do either of these things without surrendering to my most authentic self first.

Do you allow yourself to be turned on by you? Do you give yourself permission to receive sensual pleasure from yourself? Can you make love to yourself? Are you able to muse yourself and witness the artistic sexual genius that is created? OR...Do you seek something outside of you to inspire you? Do you expect someone else to bring you to orgasm? Do you need someone or something external to arouse you?

I haven’t met a woman who is not interested in developing her orgasms.

Orgasm can be just a few seconds peak experience - what I call a "genital sneeze" - and this is what most women who orgasm experience. (Including me, for many years...)