Meet A Yoni Massage Therapist: Femke van Gurp

Trained by Inner Camp + Holos Academie Heleen Baas + Kaya Jiwan + School Of Relational Embodiment

Femke van Gurp

Femke van Gurp, from Essence Pillar, works as a fully certified somatic sexologist, dearmouring practitioner, relationship therapist and sex and intimacy coach in her private practice, where she guides all people and couples towards a more embodied and pleasurable life.

Femke has a background as an acupuncturist and has helped many people and couples towards a more empowered and pleasurable life in all stages of adulthood. She has the gift of making people feel seen and welcomed, no matter the issues they might be struggling with. The people who come to sessions with Femke feel seen and heard. She shows them the wisdom, innocence and the beauty of their own body.

In her de-armouring sessions, people feel they’ve released stored, unprocessed emotions. Her way of touching the body in general is incredibly precise and attentive. Femke works with the Wheel of Consent and her work client-centered and trauma informed. She has a lot of experience with sexual trauma as well.

Her way of working gets people in touch with their bodies and their essence again. She is very passionate about giving people techniques they can use themselves, so they can actively partake in their process.

Women who have had sessions with her, feel more grounded, and more in tune with their sexuality and femininity. Some even said ‘there was a period before and a period after Femke. ’She has an incredible love for people. Femke is genuine, and caring with softness, while she can be very direct when necessary. She is playful and has a sense of humour.

As a young woman, she was fascinated by all kinds of subjects that were difficult to talk about to some people. Topics that had to do with shame, taboos and the unspoken. She was often the one people came to for advice on body image, love, relationships and sexuality. 

€95, per hour 


  • Mapping (genital/ anal/ full body)
  • Dearmouring (genital/ anal/ full body) 
  • Genital/ anal massage 
  • Self pleasure coaching 


  • Wheel of Consent (boundary work) 
  • Relationship therapy (all relationship constellations)
  • Sexology & intimacy sessions



The Netherlands (Maastricht), Europe

+ online sessions through Zoom